February 13, 2019

Humans Disappoint; God Doesn't

Genesis 29

Glenn Newblom
Wednesday's Devo

February 13, 2019

Wednesday's Devo

February 13, 2019

Central Truth

Deception at the beginning of any marriage is not a good start. And it doesn't help at any other point of marriage or other human relationships. Bringing things into the light clarifies relationships.

Key Verse | Genesis 29:25

And in the morning, behold, it was Leah! And Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?”

Genesis 29

Jacob Marries Leah and Rachel

Then Jacob went on his journey and came to the land of the people of the east. As he looked, he saw a well in the field, and behold, three flocks of sheep lying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were watered. The stone on the well's mouth was large, and when all the flocks were gathered there, the shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and water the sheep, and put the stone back in its place over the mouth of the well.

Jacob said to them, “My brothers, where do you come from?” They said, “We are from Haran.” He said to them, “Do you know Laban the son of Nahor?” They said, “We know him.” He said to them, “Is it well with him?” They said, “It is well; and see, Rachel his daughter is coming with the sheep!” He said, “Behold, it is still high day; it is not time for the livestock to be gathered together. Water the sheep and go, pasture them.” But they said, “We cannot until all the flocks are gathered together and the stone is rolled from the mouth of the well; then we water the sheep.”

While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her father's sheep, for she was a shepherdess. 10 Now as soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother's brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother's brother, Jacob came near and rolled the stone from the well's mouth and watered the flock of Laban his mother's brother. 11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud. 12 And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father's kinsman, and that he was Rebekah's son, and she ran and told her father.

13 As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his sister's son, he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought him to his house. Jacob told Laban all these things, 14 and Laban said to him, “Surely you are my bone and my flesh!” And he stayed with him a month.

15 Then Laban said to Jacob, “Because you are my kinsman, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?” 16 Now Laban had two daughters. The name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah's eyes were weak, 1 29:17 Or soft but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. 18 Jacob loved Rachel. And he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” 19 Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than that I should give her to any other man; stay with me.” 20 So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.

21 Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife that I may go in to her, for my time is completed.” 22 So Laban gathered together all the people of the place and made a feast. 23 But in the evening he took his daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and he went in to her. 24 (Laban gave 2 29:24 Or had given; also verse 29 his female servant Zilpah to his daughter Leah to be her servant.) 25 And in the morning, behold, it was Leah! And Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?” 26 Laban said, “It is not so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn. 27 Complete the week of this one, and we will give you the other also in return for serving me another seven years.” 28 Jacob did so, and completed her week. Then Laban gave him his daughter Rachel to be his wife. 29 (Laban gave his female servant Bilhah to his daughter Rachel to be her servant.) 30 So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than Leah, and served Laban for another seven years.

Jacob's Children

31 When the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb, but Rachel was barren. 32 And Leah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Reuben, 3 29:32 Reuben means See, a son for she said, “Because the LORD has looked upon my affliction; for now my husband will love me.” 33 She conceived again and bore a son, and said, “Because the LORD has heard that I am hated, he has given me this son also.” And she called his name Simeon. 4 29:33 Simeon sounds like the Hebrew for heard 34 Again she conceived and bore a son, and said, “Now this time my husband will be attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” Therefore his name was called Levi. 5 29:34 Levi sounds like the Hebrew for attached 35 And she conceived again and bore a son, and said, “This time I will praise the LORD.” Therefore she called his name Judah. 6 29:35 Judah sounds like the Hebrew for praise Then she ceased bearing.

Footnotes

[1] 29:17 Or soft
[2] 29:24 Or had given; also verse 29
[3] 29:32 Reuben means See, a son
[4] 29:33 Simeon sounds like the Hebrew for heard
[5] 29:34 Levi sounds like the Hebrew for attached
[6] 29:35 Judah sounds like the Hebrew for praise

Dive Deeper | Genesis 29

Weddings are great! It is a day of hope, fun, and commitment. As a groom, I choked up when we said our vows because I was looking for that commitment. But most of the other wedding events pale in comparison with the part of the marriage ritual that seals our commitment to each other.

Jacob's wedding day didn’t seem so different. Jacob was completely smitten by Rachel's beauty from the moment he saw her and would have done anything to be with her, including working for her father for seven-years to marry her. Unfortunately, Jacob cared so much about being with Rachel that he rushed through the wedding night and did not realize that he'd consummated the marriage with her sister until the next morning.

This was not a good way to start a marriage! Yet, Jacob was still driven by his desire to be with Rachel, causing him to agree to a new contract with Rachel's father. I wonder who today would not just walk away if we had experienced even half of what went on here.

You may have made similar commitments with your time, money, or resources, leaving you with distinct expectations. How are you prepared to respond when your expectations aren't met, or the other person lets you down, or you're otherwise disappointed? Will you cut and run? Will you sink into bitterness? Don’t do it! God has so much more for you!

As we witnessed in Genesis 27, Jacob was no stranger to sin, yet he was also familiar with God's faithfulness throughout his life. Even when Jacob found himself disappointed in his circumstances, God in His faithfulness still had a plan and a purpose for Jacob to fulfill through his obedience. This fallen creation is guaranteed to disappoint, but we have a sovereign Creator who never will. Navigate according to His instruction and reap the good He has for you—trust Him (Proverbs 3:5-6); forgive others (Ephesians 4:32); love (John 13:34); and you will lack nothing (Psalm 34:9-10).

Discussion Questions

1. While we know that Jacob had somewhat of a contentious relationship with Laban, I wonder if Jacob ever forgave Laban for his deception? What does God command us through His Word about forgiveness?

2. While there was a clear contractual aspect of Jacob's marriage negotiation with Laban, do you see any contractual aspects in marriages today?

3. How can we overcome the challenges of sin and disappointment in our relationships, our marriages, and our lives? Have you taken the time to pray about what your part in this strife may be?