February 14, 2019

Sister, Sister Smack Down

Genesis 30:1–24

Kristen Cox
Thursday's Devo

February 14, 2019

Thursday's Devo

February 14, 2019

Central Truth

When we compare and try to take control, it can lead to bitterness, division, and jealousy. God knows our hearts and our deepest desires. He is faithful and has a plan that is worth trusting.

Key Verse | Genesis 30:22-23

Then God remembered Rachel, and God listened to her and opened her womb. She conceived and bore a son and said, "God has taken away my reproach."

Genesis 30:1–24

When Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, she envied her sister. She said to Jacob, “Give me children, or I shall die!” Jacob's anger was kindled against Rachel, and he said, “Am I in the place of God, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?” Then she said, “Here is my servant Bilhah; go in to her, so that she may give birth on my behalf, 1 30:3 Hebrew on my knees that even I may have children 2 30:3 Hebrew be built up, which sounds like the Hebrew for children through her.” So she gave him her servant Bilhah as a wife, and Jacob went in to her. And Bilhah conceived and bore Jacob a son. Then Rachel said, “God has judged me, and has also heard my voice and given me a son.” Therefore she called his name Dan. 3 30:6 Dan sounds like the Hebrew for judged Rachel's servant Bilhah conceived again and bore Jacob a second son. Then Rachel said, “With mighty wrestlings 4 30:8 Hebrew With wrestlings of God I have wrestled with my sister and have prevailed.” So she called his name Naphtali. 5 30:8 Naphtali sounds like the Hebrew for wrestling

When Leah saw that she had ceased bearing children, she took her servant Zilpah and gave her to Jacob as a wife. 10 Then Leah's servant Zilpah bore Jacob a son. 11 And Leah said, “Good fortune has come!” so she called his name Gad. 6 30:11 Gad sounds like the Hebrew for good fortune 12 Leah's servant Zilpah bore Jacob a second son. 13 And Leah said, “Happy am I! For women have called me happy.” So she called his name Asher. 7 30:13 Asher sounds like the Hebrew for happy

14 In the days of wheat harvest Reuben went and found mandrakes in the field and brought them to his mother Leah. Then Rachel said to Leah, “Please give me some of your son's mandrakes.” 15 But she said to her, “Is it a small matter that you have taken away my husband? Would you take away my son's mandrakes also?” Rachel said, “Then he may lie with you tonight in exchange for your son's mandrakes.” 16 When Jacob came from the field in the evening, Leah went out to meet him and said, “You must come in to me, for I have hired you with my son's mandrakes.” So he lay with her that night. 17 And God listened to Leah, and she conceived and bore Jacob a fifth son. 18 Leah said, “God has given me my wages because I gave my servant to my husband.” So she called his name Issachar. 8 30:18 Issachar sounds like the Hebrew for wages, or hire

19 And Leah conceived again, and she bore Jacob a sixth son. 20 Then Leah said, “God has endowed me with a good endowment; now my husband will honor me, because I have borne him six sons.” So she called his name Zebulun. 9 30:20 Zebulun sounds like the Hebrew for honor 21 Afterward she bore a daughter and called her name Dinah.

22 Then God remembered Rachel, and God listened to her and opened her womb. 23 She conceived and bore a son and said, “God has taken away my reproach.” 24 And she called his name Joseph, 10 30:24 Joseph means May he add, and sounds like the Hebrew for taken away saying, “May the LORD add to me another son!”

Footnotes

[1] 30:3 Hebrew on my knees
[2] 30:3 Hebrew be built up, which sounds like the Hebrew for children
[3] 30:6 Dan sounds like the Hebrew for judged
[4] 30:8 Hebrew With wrestlings of God
[5] 30:8 Naphtali sounds like the Hebrew for wrestling
[6] 30:11 Gad sounds like the Hebrew for good fortune
[7] 30:13 Asher sounds like the Hebrew for happy
[8] 30:18 Issachar sounds like the Hebrew for wages, or hire
[9] 30:20 Zebulun sounds like the Hebrew for honor
[10] 30:24 Joseph means May he add, and sounds like the Hebrew for taken away

Dive Deeper | Genesis 30:1–24

There's probably a good reason why Valentine's Day was not around during the time of Genesis. I can imagine Rachel thinking, "Leah's flowers are prettier than mine"; or Leah thinking, "Rachel received the better assortment of chocolates." I have no doubt that sharing a husband would be difficult, but these sisters let the evil game of comparison wreak havoc on their relationships with each other and with Jacob. They both wanted love and affection from Jacob. Having children is a blessing, but they thought that children would bring the love and affection they desired. They became locked in a baby-making competition. Rachel and Leah compared themselves to each other, and that is where they found their worth. They stopped at nothing to get what they wanted, even if it meant giving Jacob their maidservants to have children on their behalf. This fueled the cycle of jealousy and bitterness even more. 

But in the middle of their mess, God did not forget them. He had a plan. Twice in this chapter we see that God listened and answered Rachel's and Leah's prayers (Genesis 30:17 and Genesis 30:22). I love how we get to see God's character. He listens to us and knows us. No mess is too big for Him to use for His glory! In fact, those 12 boys that Rachel and Leah were responsible for were used by God to establish the tribes of Israel.  

Like Rachel and Leah, I can be guilty of playing the comparison game. It starts with the subtle thought of "it must be nice to have that job" or "it must be nice to have a spouse." I'm sure you can fill in the blank: "It must be nice to ______." This leaves us empty. True satisfaction and worth can only be found in Christ because He loves us and knows us intimately (Psalm 139:13-16). God is not trying to rip us off (Psalm 84:11). I find comfort in knowing that I can rest in my identity in Christ. He knows what I need, when I need it, and how I need it.

Discussion Questions

1. Are there any subtle comparisons you make that you need to acknowledge today? If so, what can you do to shift your focus to who you are in Christ?

2. Is there anything that you are desiring more than having a relationship with the Lord? 

3. Do you believe that God has a plan and purpose for your life? Here are a few verses to get you started: Ephesians 2:10; Philippians 1:6; Proverbs 19:20-21; Hebrews 12:1-2; Micah 6:8. There are so many more!

4. Rachel and Leah both experienced the pain and struggle of infertility. Watermark's Shiloh ministry is for women and couples who are experiencing infertility and/or miscarriage. The hope of this ministry is to connect women/couples with others who understand and can share encouragement and wisdom through God's Word.