April 13, 2009
Central Truth
Speaking the right words at the right time honors the Lord.
"But it is a spirit in people, the breath of the Almighty, that makes them understand." (Job 32:8)
1 So these three men ceased to answer Job, because he was righteous in his own eyes. 2 Then Elihu the son of Barachel the Buzite, of the family of Ram, burned with anger. He burned with anger at Job because he justified himself rather than God. 3 He burned with anger also at Job's three friends because they had found no answer, although they had declared Job to be in the wrong. 4 Now Elihu had waited to speak to Job because they were older than he. 5 And when Elihu saw that there was no answer in the mouth of these three men, he burned with anger.
6 And Elihu the son of Barachel the Buzite answered and said:
“I am young in years,
and you are aged;
therefore I was timid and afraid
to declare my opinion to you.
7
I said, ‘Let days speak,
and many years teach wisdom.’
8
But it is the spirit in man,
the breath of the Almighty, that makes him understand.
9
It is not the old
1
32:9
Hebrew many [in years]
who are wise,
nor the aged who understand what is right.
10
Therefore I say, ‘Listen to me;
let me also declare my opinion.’
11
Behold, I waited for your words,
I listened for your wise sayings,
while you searched out what to say.
12
I gave you my attention,
and, behold, there was none among you who refuted Job
or who answered his words.
13
Beware lest you say, ‘We have found wisdom;
God may vanquish him, not a man.’
14
He has not directed his words against me,
and I will not answer him with your speeches.
15
They are dismayed; they answer no more;
they have not a word to say.
16
And shall I wait, because they do not speak,
because they stand there, and answer no more?
17
I also will answer with my share;
I also will declare my opinion.
18
For I am full of words;
the spirit within me constrains me.
19
Behold, my belly is like wine that has no vent;
like new wineskins ready to burst.
20
I must speak, that I may find relief;
I must open my lips and answer.
21
I will not show partiality to any man
or use flattery toward any person.
22
For I do not know how to flatter,
else my Maker would soon take me away.
Have you ever had such a strong feeling of fear, anger, excitement, or other emotion that produced an urgent desire to say what's on your mind? Have you ever, like me, gone ahead and said it without thinking? Well, I am pretty sure we all have. Sometimes it is funny and harmless, but sometimes it can cause a lot of pain or be completely irrelevant to the situation.
When I am fearful or in pain, I struggle with wanting to say things that end up being hurtful to my loved ones. I know I have said things that have hurt those I love very much. I’m learning slowly, and with the Lord’s help I am able to talk about my fear or pain instead of exploding and saying hurtful things. I am also learning to ask for forgiveness when I do not.
In today's passage, I am struck by Elihu’s persistent urge to speak. Elihu constantly, ten times in fact, asks Job’s friends to pay attention to what he is saying. It seems that Elihu believes it necessary to say what he is saying on the Lord’s behalf. He notes that he has been patient, but he must speak now because the spirit within him compels him (verse 18). Scholars debate whether this was actually the Spirit of the Lord or just his fleshly spirit.
Proverbs 25:11 (NIV) reminds us that “[a] word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” When we speak choice words at the right time, they can really make an impact. In fact, there are moments that the Spirit of the Lord moves us to say things that can be totally in His Spirit and absolutely loving, even if they may not be what the other person wants to hear. Sometimes we need to be willing to be His voice and say what no one else will say.
1. What are ways in which you can discern between your urges to speak and God’s desire to have you speak?
2. When was the last time you spoke words to someone that would honor the Lord (an apple of gold)?
3. Is there someone you need to ask for forgiveness because you may have hurt them by saying something based solely on your own urges?
4. Can you recall a person in Scripture who continually spoke the right words at the right time?