February 6, 2023

God corrects us despite disobedience.

Genesis 29

Adam Torma
Monday's Devo

February 6, 2023

Monday's Devo

February 6, 2023

Big Idea

We can trust God when we don't know how things will turn out.

Key Verse | Genesis 29:25

And in the morning, behold, it was Leah! And Jacob said to Laban, "What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?"

Genesis 29

Jacob Marries Leah and Rachel

Then Jacob went on his journey and came to the land of the people of the east. As he looked, he saw a well in the field, and behold, three flocks of sheep lying beside it, for out of that well the flocks were watered. The stone on the well's mouth was large, and when all the flocks were gathered there, the shepherds would roll the stone from the mouth of the well and water the sheep, and put the stone back in its place over the mouth of the well.

Jacob said to them, “My brothers, where do you come from?” They said, “We are from Haran.” He said to them, “Do you know Laban the son of Nahor?” They said, “We know him.” He said to them, “Is it well with him?” They said, “It is well; and see, Rachel his daughter is coming with the sheep!” He said, “Behold, it is still high day; it is not time for the livestock to be gathered together. Water the sheep and go, pasture them.” But they said, “We cannot until all the flocks are gathered together and the stone is rolled from the mouth of the well; then we water the sheep.”

While he was still speaking with them, Rachel came with her father's sheep, for she was a shepherdess. 10 Now as soon as Jacob saw Rachel the daughter of Laban his mother's brother, and the sheep of Laban his mother's brother, Jacob came near and rolled the stone from the well's mouth and watered the flock of Laban his mother's brother. 11 Then Jacob kissed Rachel and wept aloud. 12 And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father's kinsman, and that he was Rebekah's son, and she ran and told her father.

13 As soon as Laban heard the news about Jacob, his sister's son, he ran to meet him and embraced him and kissed him and brought him to his house. Jacob told Laban all these things, 14 and Laban said to him, “Surely you are my bone and my flesh!” And he stayed with him a month.

15 Then Laban said to Jacob, “Because you are my kinsman, should you therefore serve me for nothing? Tell me, what shall your wages be?” 16 Now Laban had two daughters. The name of the older was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel. 17 Leah's eyes were weak, 1 29:17 Or soft but Rachel was beautiful in form and appearance. 18 Jacob loved Rachel. And he said, “I will serve you seven years for your younger daughter Rachel.” 19 Laban said, “It is better that I give her to you than that I should give her to any other man; stay with me.” 20 So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed to him but a few days because of the love he had for her.

21 Then Jacob said to Laban, “Give me my wife that I may go in to her, for my time is completed.” 22 So Laban gathered together all the people of the place and made a feast. 23 But in the evening he took his daughter Leah and brought her to Jacob, and he went in to her. 24 (Laban gave 2 29:24 Or had given; also verse 29 his female servant Zilpah to his daughter Leah to be her servant.) 25 And in the morning, behold, it was Leah! And Jacob said to Laban, “What is this you have done to me? Did I not serve with you for Rachel? Why then have you deceived me?” 26 Laban said, “It is not so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn. 27 Complete the week of this one, and we will give you the other also in return for serving me another seven years.” 28 Jacob did so, and completed her week. Then Laban gave him his daughter Rachel to be his wife. 29 (Laban gave his female servant Bilhah to his daughter Rachel to be her servant.) 30 So Jacob went in to Rachel also, and he loved Rachel more than Leah, and served Laban for another seven years.

Jacob's Children

31 When the LORD saw that Leah was hated, he opened her womb, but Rachel was barren. 32 And Leah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Reuben, 3 29:32 Reuben means See, a son for she said, “Because the LORD has looked upon my affliction; for now my husband will love me.” 33 She conceived again and bore a son, and said, “Because the LORD has heard that I am hated, he has given me this son also.” And she called his name Simeon. 4 29:33 Simeon sounds like the Hebrew for heard 34 Again she conceived and bore a son, and said, “Now this time my husband will be attached to me, because I have borne him three sons.” Therefore his name was called Levi. 5 29:34 Levi sounds like the Hebrew for attached 35 And she conceived again and bore a son, and said, “This time I will praise the LORD.” Therefore she called his name Judah. 6 29:35 Judah sounds like the Hebrew for praise Then she ceased bearing.

Footnotes

[1] 29:17 Or soft
[2] 29:24 Or had given; also verse 29
[3] 29:32 Reuben means See, a son
[4] 29:33 Simeon sounds like the Hebrew for heard
[5] 29:34 Levi sounds like the Hebrew for attached
[6] 29:35 Judah sounds like the Hebrew for praise

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Dive Deeper | Genesis 29

What was the last thing you put your heart into only to be disappointed by the outcome? How did you respond? For me, my last disappointment was not being selected to referee a football championship. If you have been around me long enough, you know I love officiating enough to spend hundreds of hours a year for the rare opportunity to work a championship. When my opportunity finally came and I wasn't selected, I was extremely disappointed. However, I never took a moment to seek God or wonder if He might be refining my heart.

Years later, I can see that God may have been trying to show me that my quest for a championship while neglecting my relationships with friends and family had become an idol. My setback helped me realize that God isn't going to love me any more or any less for achieving a championship, but He does care that "whatever you do, do all to the glory of God." (1 Corinthians 10:31) Do you think Jacob considered that God may have been using Laban's wedding deception to discipline Jacob for deceiving his father and stealing his brother Esau's blessing? Did his desire for Rachel distract him from considering that God may be sanctifying him?

God is a loving Father who will discipline us even if we don't immediately see it: "[B]ut he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness. For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." (Hebrews 12:10-11) The next time you are disappointed or experience a setback, don't forget to turn to God. Remember He is in control and you may ask Him for help. The answer you receive may just be that He is being a perfect Father, disciplining you so that you may later yield the peaceful fruit of righteousness.

This month's memory verse

Whoever walks in integrity walks securely,
    but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out.

– Proverbs 10:9

Discussion Questions

1. What was the last thing you put your heart into only to be disappointed about the outcome? Did you seek God? Why or why not?

2. Are there currently any desires you have for your life you are putting above God's desires for your life? Will you confess it to someone?

3. Do you believe that God has disciplined you? What did that look like for you?

4. How will you be able to recognize the next time God is discipling you?

5. When you are disappointed, what practical things can you do to turn to God? 

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Michael Scaman

Jacob sought a wife at Laban's home and managed to run into the love of his life at a well. Jacob even got to show off moving the big stone in front of her :) . Moses, Isaac and Jacob all got wives as the wives came and sought to give their sheep water.
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Hugh Stephenson

GM Adam. GREAT devo on how God uses our idols to refine and teach us. Q1. The last and still deeply desired wish in my heart is for the salvation of my unbelieving children. My white knuckled grip on this wish is progressing to hands off and palms up but I’m not yet fully there. Q2. Yes. Control. Fully living out Luke 9:23 is a daily prayer struggle. Q3. Without question. See below. Q4. God regularly brings men into my life to disciple me. It’s a continuous act of patience, mercy and grace that stuns me. I am constantly reminded of His faithfulness. Q5. I have learned that surrendered prayer is my only answer. Also, spending deep and extended time in His Word.
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Hugh Stephenson

How do I get from “if” to “since”? From “if God…” to “since God…”? Looking back, I can see how desperate I was to have God at the center of my life. Growing up deeply imbedded in a physical environment of raw unspoiled nature I was keenly aware that there was “something else” that was much bigger than I. The epiphany was that my image of God was far from the reality. As a young adult I came to understand that the image of my dad was the dominant factor in my image of God. Being raised by a single mom and his grandfather during the Great Depression made him relentlessly driven and remarkably resilient. As a father he was more distant. Most of his involvement was as a disciplinarian. In recent years my study of God’s Word bought the reality of my flawed view into very sharp focus, http://www.discipleshiplibrary.com/Bridgehome.htm
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Hugh Stephenson

In this chapter I see two big take-a-ways: 1. Jacob’s image of God was also way off; (see his highly conditional oath last chapter). -Genesis 29:11- Jacob wept, not worshiped -Genesis 29:12 Jacob did not pray for divine guidance -God providence is set off against Jacob’s prayerlessness (TCs Notes). 2. God will use whatever is needed, (like 14 years of laboring for Laban), to prune, sharpen, and refine Jacob, (and me), (John 15:2-6, Hebrews 12:11, Zechariah 13:9). For me, it was decades of unhealthy coping mechanisms that brought me to the end. Only then could I, like Jacob, be ready for instruction. God created me to be his agent, (Genesis 1:26-28). When my “If God…” is bigger then my “Since God…” I will be “kicking again st the goads” https://www.gotquestions.org/kick-against-the-pricks.html When I seek unity with Him then my way and path will be clear, (Psalm 119:105, John 15:10-11, John 14:20).
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Chris Landry

Thanks for the devotional, Adam. I’ve not really considered the idea that God could be refining Jacob after his deception of Issac for Esau’s birthright. Very sensible indeed. “What goes around, comes around.” (See also: Galatians 6:7-9) Refinement is hardly ever - if ever - noticed at the front end. (See also the potter and clay analogy. Jeremiah 18:1-11). For me, it’s not until I get to the other side of it that I can see what God is trying to teach me and how he is molding me. <<<< probably what the clay pot said, too. 😂🤷🏻‍♂️ It seems that sanctification - becoming more like Jesus - will bring that gap of time to smaller and smaller increments. What can that be called?? Maybe the “recognition gap”? The gap of time it takes me to recognize God’s goodness in a hard situation. So, may I not neglect the opportunity to recognize God’s goodness today. Whether I’m on a mountain top or getting set onto the Potter’s wheel. He’s good in it all.
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Michael Sisson

Re: Gen 29:31 Gen 29:31 (NASB) Now the LORD saw that Leah was *[Lit hated] unloved, and He opened her womb, but Rachel was barren. Re: Gen 29:33 Gen 29:33 (NASB) Then she conceived again and bore a son and said, “Because the LORD has heard that I am *[Lit hated] unloved, He has therefore given me this son also.” So she named him Simeon. While we’d like to believe Jacob simply preferred Rachel over Leah, the literal translation says Leah was “hated.” Regardless, it’s through Leah that G-d chose to bring forth His Messiah (Gen 29:35); not via her first born, but rather through her fourth born son, Judah. Moreover, Jacob’s “hatred” of Leah is yet another link in a chain of examples throughout scripture of the far off, approaching Messiah (Num 24:17a) and His progenitors being unrecognized, mistreated, and despised.
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Michael Scaman

God sovereignly chose Jacob . Malachi will say 'Jacob I loved and Esau I hated' in some contrasting sense and it made all the different in the world down through history. It did not mean God white washed the character flaws of the chosen. As part of his 'sanctification' Jacob dealt with many deceptions. Jacob was given the wrong wife, Jacob worked for many extra years and Jacob lost his son Joseph to a fake 'animal attack'. Through it all Jacob/Israel is striving with God and man and prevailing.
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Sue Bohlin

Super devo, Adam. One of the things I am most thankful for in the Watermark DNA, especially manifested through re:generation, is how we are taught to identify the idols in our lives. It's so easy to skate through life oblivious to them! And @ChrisLandry--loved your observation about never seeing refinement on the front end. After now 50 years of walking with Jesus, I see how much we come to learn what God's been doing by looking in the rear view mirror of our lives! But since that's true, it has made me more aware of the possibility of identifying refinement and sanctification on the front end. Within moments of getting the horrific diagnosis of tongue cancer, I opened my hands to the Lord and thought, "OK, Lord, looks like You'll be doing a refining work in me through THIS." (By the way, He has been SO incredibly gracious in bringing healing and recovery to me. My speech is still understandable to others even though it's painful to MY ears and my soul, but I'm still in on the potter's wheel of the recovery/refinement stage.) In today's chapter, my heart hurts for Leah. She had to live her entire life feeling unchosen and unloved, feeling the sting of rejection and seeing her younger sister preferred over her. All those children she bore Jacob were the Lord's blessing to her, but they would not compensate for feeling unloved and passed over. Bless her heart. The other day I learned that the wedding tradition of lifting the bride's veil goes back to this chapter. If Jacob (or Laban, for that matter) had lifted Leah's veil to reveal her face before he said "I do," he wouldn't have woken up with the wife he didn't want.
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Amy Lowther

1. I have put my heart into hunting for a new job so I can advance.. Unfortunately, it takes a little longer than I expected. Going to God over each part of the job hunt helps everything make sense. 2. No. God’s values in my approach to life help me see life in the best way possible. 3. Yes, God helps me to choose what is best in life. With God’s discipline, things look very clear, very objective, and very organized. 4. It’s something that will accurately hit the spot. 5. Practical ways to turn to God when I am disappointed include praying to God and reading the Bible.