February 28, 2019

She Did What?!

Genesis 38

Kim Selke
Thursday's Devo

February 28, 2019

Thursday's Devo

February 28, 2019

Central Truth

Living as God has called us means being willing to hear and obey Him when He convicts us of our sin.

Key Verse | Genesis 38:26a

Then Judah identified them and said, "She is more righteous than I, since I did not give her to my son Shelah."

 

Genesis 38

Judah and Tamar

It happened at that time that Judah went down from his brothers and turned aside to a certain Adullamite, whose name was Hirah. There Judah saw the daughter of a certain Canaanite whose name was Shua. He took her and went in to her, and she conceived and bore a son, and he called his name Er. She conceived again and bore a son, and she called his name Onan. Yet again she bore a son, and she called his name Shelah. Judah 1 38:5 Hebrew He was in Chezib when she bore him.

And Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. But Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and the LORD put him to death. Then Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother's wife and perform the duty of a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for your brother.” But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his. So whenever he went in to his brother's wife he would waste the semen on the ground, so as not to give offspring to his brother. 10 And what he did was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and he put him to death also. 11 Then Judah said to Tamar his daughter-in-law, “Remain a widow in your father's house, till Shelah my son grows up”—for he feared that he would die, like his brothers. So Tamar went and remained in her father's house.

12 In the course of time the wife of Judah, Shua's daughter, died. When Judah was comforted, he went up to Timnah to his sheepshearers, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite. 13 And when Tamar was told, “Your father-in-law is going up to Timnah to shear his sheep,” 14 she took off her widow's garments and covered herself with a veil, wrapping herself up, and sat at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the road to Timnah. For she saw that Shelah was grown up, and she had not been given to him in marriage. 15 When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute, for she had covered her face. 16 He turned to her at the roadside and said, “Come, let me come in to you,” for he did not know that she was his daughter-in-law. She said, “What will you give me, that you may come in to me?” 17 He answered, “I will send you a young goat from the flock.” And she said, “If you give me a pledge, until you send it—” 18 He said, “What pledge shall I give you?” She replied, “Your signet and your cord and your staff that is in your hand.” So he gave them to her and went in to her, and she conceived by him. 19 Then she arose and went away, and taking off her veil she put on the garments of her widowhood.

20 When Judah sent the young goat by his friend the Adullamite to take back the pledge from the woman's hand, he did not find her. 21 And he asked the men of the place, “Where is the cult prostitute 2 38:21 Hebrew sacred woman; a woman who served a pagan deity by prostitution; also verse 22 who was at Enaim at the roadside?” And they said, “No cult prostitute has been here.” 22 So he returned to Judah and said, “I have not found her. Also, the men of the place said, ‘No cult prostitute has been here.’” 23 And Judah replied, “Let her keep the things as her own, or we shall be laughed at. You see, I sent this young goat, and you did not find her.”

24 About three months later Judah was told, “Tamar your daughter-in-law has been immoral. 3 38:24 Or has committed prostitution Moreover, she is pregnant by immorality.” 4 38:24 Or by prostitution And Judah said, “Bring her out, and let her be burned.” 25 As she was being brought out, she sent word to her father-in-law, “By the man to whom these belong, I am pregnant.” And she said, “Please identify whose these are, the signet and the cord and the staff.” 26 Then Judah identified them and said, “She is more righteous than I, since I did not give her to my son Shelah.” And he did not know her again.

27 When the time of her labor came, there were twins in her womb. 28 And when she was in labor, one put out a hand, and the midwife took and tied a scarlet thread on his hand, saying, “This one came out first.” 29 But as he drew back his hand, behold, his brother came out. And she said, “What a breach you have made for yourself!” Therefore his name was called Perez. 5 38:29 Perez means a breach 30 Afterward his brother came out with the scarlet thread on his hand, and his name was called Zerah.

Footnotes

[1] 38:5 Hebrew He
[2] 38:21 Hebrew sacred woman; a woman who served a pagan deity by prostitution; also verse 22
[3] 38:24 Or has committed prostitution
[4] 38:24 Or by prostitution
[5] 38:29 Perez means a breach

Dive Deeper | Genesis 38

How do you respond when faced with the reality of your sin? I know my natural instinct is to defend myself, make excuses, or even lie to justify my actions.

I'm sure Judah was tempted to do the same. Judah was a selfish, disobedient man. He had sold his own brother into slavery and tricked their father into believing he was dead. (Genesis 37:26-35) He then refused to provide for his widowed daughter-in-law, Tamar, and slept with a woman he thought was a temple prostitute. The woman was actually Tamar, who was desperately trying to seek justice, continue her family line, and do whatever she had to in order to get it. How is it that Judah then says, "She is more righteous than I"?

While her method is by no means an example to follow, this story is not about Tamar and the right or wrong of her actions. It's about God doing what He does best—changing a heart. God used the subtle rebuke of Tamar's question to pierce Judah's heart. Handing him the belongings he'd given the "temple prostitute," Tamar asked him to "please identify whose these are." I can just imagine the irony of the question dawning on Judah as he recalled fooling his father years earlier with the same question (Genesis 37:32). Judah's response in Gen 38:26 is surprising—he fesses up! Without this seemingly random interlude amid Joseph's nail-biting story (Genesis 37-46), we would be hard pressed to understand later why Judah so selflessly offers his life to save another's (Genesis 44:33). God changed his heart.

I wonder if our hearts are this soft when we sense God's rebuke? Are we willing to remove the logs from our own eyes when someone points them out, or do we rush to pluck specks from everyone else’s? (Matthew 7:5)

The message of Genesis is that God is faithful to His promises despite humanity's failure. I am so thankful that we have a God who, "[i]f we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9)

 

Discussion Questions

1. How are you tempted to react when someone points out your sin?

2. What sin do you think God wants you to "identify" right now?

3. If you have never admitted your sin before God or others and asked for forgiveness, what's stopping you?