January 25, 2019

Our Approach and Response Matter

Genesis 18

Amanda Myers
Friday's Devo

January 25, 2019

Friday's Devo

January 25, 2019

Central Truth

How we approach and respond to the Lord and others truly matters.

Key Verse | Genesis 18:27, 30a, 32a

Abraham answered and said, “Behold, I have undertaken to speak to the Lord, I who am but dust and ashes." . . . Then he said, “Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak.” . . . Then he said, “Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak again but this once."

Genesis 18

And the LORD appeared to him by the oaks 1 18:1 Or terebinths of Mamre, as he sat at the door of his tent in the heat of the day. He lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, three men were standing in front of him. When he saw them, he ran from the tent door to meet them and bowed himself to the earth and said, “O Lord, 2 18:3 Or My lord if I have found favor in your sight, do not pass by your servant. Let a little water be brought, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree, while I bring a morsel of bread, that you may refresh yourselves, and after that you may pass on—since you have come to your servant.” So they said, “Do as you have said.” And Abraham went quickly into the tent to Sarah and said, “Quick! Three seahs 3 18:6 A seah was about 7 quarts or 7.3 liters of fine flour! Knead it, and make cakes.” And Abraham ran to the herd and took a calf, tender and good, and gave it to a young man, who prepared it quickly. Then he took curds and milk and the calf that he had prepared, and set it before them. And he stood by them under the tree while they ate.

They said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?” And he said, “She is in the tent.” 10 The LORD said, “I will surely return to you about this time next year, and Sarah your wife shall have a son.” And Sarah was listening at the tent door behind him. 11 Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in years. The way of women had ceased to be with Sarah. 12 So Sarah laughed to herself, saying, “After I am worn out, and my lord is old, shall I have pleasure?” 13 The LORD said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh and say, ‘Shall I indeed bear a child, now that I am old?’ 14 Is anything too hard 4 18:14 Or wonderful for the LORD? At the appointed time I will return to you, about this time next year, and Sarah shall have a son.” 15 But Sarah denied it, 5 18:15 Or acted falsely saying, “I did not laugh,” for she was afraid. He said, “No, but you did laugh.”

16 Then the men set out from there, and they looked down toward Sodom. And Abraham went with them to set them on their way. 17 The LORD said, “Shall I hide from Abraham what I am about to do, 18 seeing that Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him? 19 For I have chosen 6 18:19 Hebrew known him, that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righteousness and justice, so that the LORD may bring to Abraham what he has promised him.” 20 Then the LORD said, “Because the outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is great and their sin is very grave, 21 I will go down to see whether they have done altogether 7 18:21 Or they deserve destruction; Hebrew they have made a complete end according to the outcry that has come to me. And if not, I will know.”

Abraham Intercedes for Sodom

22 So the men turned from there and went toward Sodom, but Abraham still stood before the LORD. 23 Then Abraham drew near and said, “Will you indeed sweep away the righteous with the wicked? 24 Suppose there are fifty righteous within the city. Will you then sweep away the place and not spare it for the fifty righteous who are in it? 25 Far be it from you to do such a thing, to put the righteous to death with the wicked, so that the righteous fare as the wicked! Far be that from you! Shall not the Judge of all the earth do what is just?” 26 And the LORD said, “If I find at Sodom fifty righteous in the city, I will spare the whole place for their sake.”

27 Abraham answered and said, “Behold, I have undertaken to speak to the Lord, I who am but dust and ashes. 28 Suppose five of the fifty righteous are lacking. Will you destroy the whole city for lack of five?” And he said, “I will not destroy it if I find forty-five there.” 29 Again he spoke to him and said, “Suppose forty are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of forty I will not do it.” 30 Then he said, “Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak. Suppose thirty are found there.” He answered, “I will not do it, if I find thirty there.” 31 He said, “Behold, I have undertaken to speak to the Lord. Suppose twenty are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of twenty I will not destroy it.” 32 Then he said, “Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak again but this once. Suppose ten are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of ten I will not destroy it.” 33 And the LORD went his way, when he had finished speaking to Abraham, and Abraham returned to his place.

Footnotes

[1] 18:1 Or terebinths
[2] 18:3 Or My lord
[3] 18:6 A seah was about 7 quarts or 7.3 liters
[4] 18:14 Or wonderful
[5] 18:15 Or acted falsely
[6] 18:19 Hebrew known
[7] 18:21 Or they deserve destruction; Hebrew they have made a complete end

Dive Deeper | Genesis 18

Picture this: you have questions or concerns about a choice your spouse, boss, or a family member has made; your child is asking for the fourth, fifth, or even sixth time for a treat, toy, or privilege; a member from your community group comes to you with concerns over how you handled a situation. Where does your head or heart go?

Abraham pleads for Sodom in the second half of the chapter. Was he wrong for questioning and approaching the Lord God Almighty the way he did? In 1 Peter 5:6-7, we are told, “Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.” Abraham approaches the Lord in Genesis 18:27 with humility, identifying himself as “I who am but dust and ashes.” And again in Genesis 18:30 and 32, he begins, “Oh let not the Lord be angry . . . .” He had a sincere heart and was genuinely concerned for the people of the land. He did not attack the Lord out of frustration. He did not question His authority. He was merely seeking to understand and to share his heart. The Lord desires to hear from you. He deeply cares for you.

And how did the Lord respond? Out of anger or frustration that Abraham was questioning HIM? Not. At. All. He responded out of His compassion. “But you, Lord, are a compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness.” (Psalm 86:15, NIV) The Lord was willing to have the same conversation with Abraham, not once, not twice, but six times!

My first inclination is not usually patience if I am asked the same question more than once. My sin struggles of pride and control can sometimes rear their ugly heads and take over. Thankfully, the Lord shows us how we should respond to others. With patience, compassion, and love. Only when we are abiding with the Lord can we put on humility, trust, and love (see Ephesians 4:22-24). Who’s with me?

Discussion Questions

1. How do you approach the Lord? Is it dependent on what you're approaching Him with or how you feel at the moment? Should it be?

2. How should you approach and respond to others? Your children? Spouse? Boss or co-worker? Someone in your community group?

3. What worry or anxiety can you cast upon the Lord with a sincere heart?

4. What do you need to put off so you can put on Christ’s righteousness and holiness?