July 12, 2015

OLD MATH, NEW MATH, OR GOD'S MATH . . . YOU CHOOSE

Song of Solomon 1–8

KC Cook
Sunday's Devo

July 12, 2015

Sunday's Devo

July 12, 2015

Central Truth

Most of us love romance: the butterflies, emotions, and being deeply connected to another person. But, if we try to do it our way, we are headed for pain and sorrow. Because God created relationships, He should be the One to guide us while we are in them.

Key Verse | Song of Solomon 2:15

Catch all the foxes,
    those little foxes,
before they ruin the vineyard of love,
    for the grapevines are blossoming!

Song of Solomon 2:15

Song of Solomon 1–8

The Song of Songs, which is Solomon's.

The Bride Confesses Her Love

She 1 1:2 The translators have added speaker identifications based on the gender and number of the Hebrew words

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine;
    your anointing oils are fragrant;
your name is oil poured out;
    therefore virgins love you.
Draw me after you; let us run.
    The king has brought me into his chambers.

Others

We will exult and rejoice in you;
    we will extol your love more than wine;
    rightly do they love you.

She

I am very dark, but lovely,
    O daughters of Jerusalem,
like the tents of Kedar,
    like the curtains of Solomon.
Do not gaze at me because I am dark,
    because the sun has looked upon me.
My mother's sons were angry with me;
    they made me keeper of the vineyards,
    but my own vineyard I have not kept!
Tell me, you whom my soul loves,
    where you pasture your flock,
    where you make it lie down at noon;
for why should I be like one who veils herself
    beside the flocks of your companions?

Solomon and His Bride Delight in Each Other

He

If you do not know,
    O most beautiful among women,
follow in the tracks of the flock,
    and pasture your young goats
    beside the shepherds' tents.

I compare you, my love,
    to a mare among Pharaoh's chariots.
10  Your cheeks are lovely with ornaments,
    your neck with strings of jewels.

Others

11  We will make for you 2 1:11 The Hebrew for you is feminine singular ornaments of gold,
    studded with silver.

She

12  While the king was on his couch,
    my nard gave forth its fragrance.
13  My beloved is to me a sachet of myrrh
    that lies between my breasts.
14  My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms
    in the vineyards of Engedi.

He

15  Behold, you are beautiful, my love;
    behold, you are beautiful;
    your eyes are doves.

She

16  Behold, you are beautiful, my beloved, truly delightful.
Our couch is green;
17      the beams of our house are cedar;
    our rafters are pine.

I am a rose 3 2:1 Probably a bulb, such as a crocus, asphodel, or narcissus of Sharon,
    a lily of the valleys.

He

As a lily among brambles,
    so is my love among the young women.

She

As an apple tree among the trees of the forest,
    so is my beloved among the young men.
With great delight I sat in his shadow,
    and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
He brought me to the banqueting house, 4 2:4 Hebrew the house of wine
    and his banner over me was love.
Sustain me with raisins;
    refresh me with apples,
    for I am sick with love.
His left hand is under my head,
    and his right hand embraces me!
I adjure you, 5 2:7 That is, I put you on oath; so throughout the Song O daughters of Jerusalem,
    by the gazelles or the does of the field,
that you not stir up or awaken love
    until it pleases.

The Bride Adores Her Beloved

The voice of my beloved!
    Behold, he comes,
leaping over the mountains,
    bounding over the hills.
My beloved is like a gazelle
    or a young stag.
Behold, there he stands
    behind our wall,
gazing through the windows,
    looking through the lattice.
10  My beloved speaks and says to me:
“Arise, my love, my beautiful one,
    and come away,
11  for behold, the winter is past;
    the rain is over and gone.
12  The flowers appear on the earth,
    the time of singing 6 2:12 Or pruning has come,
and the voice of the turtledove
    is heard in our land.
13  The fig tree ripens its figs,
    and the vines are in blossom;
    they give forth fragrance.
Arise, my love, my beautiful one,
    and come away.
14  O my dove, in the clefts of the rock,
    in the crannies of the cliff,
let me see your face,
    let me hear your voice,
for your voice is sweet,
    and your face is lovely.
15  Catch the foxes 7 2:15 Or jackals for us,
    the little foxes
that spoil the vineyards,
    for our vineyards are in blossom.”

16  My beloved is mine, and I am his;
    he grazes 8 2:16 Or he pastures his flock among the lilies.
17  Until the day breathes
    and the shadows flee,
turn, my beloved, be like a gazelle
    or a young stag on cleft mountains. 9 2:17 Or mountains of Bether

The Bride's Dream

On my bed by night
I sought him whom my soul loves;
    I sought him, but found him not.
I will rise now and go about the city,
    in the streets and in the squares;
I will seek him whom my soul loves.
    I sought him, but found him not.
The watchmen found me
    as they went about in the city.
“Have you seen him whom my soul loves?”
Scarcely had I passed them
    when I found him whom my soul loves.
I held him, and would not let him go
    until I had brought him into my mother's house,
    and into the chamber of her who conceived me.
I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem,
    by the gazelles or the does of the field,
that you not stir up or awaken love
    until it pleases.

Solomon Arrives for the Wedding

What is that coming up from the wilderness
    like columns of smoke,
perfumed with myrrh and frankincense,
    with all the fragrant powders of a merchant?
Behold, it is the litter 10 3:7 That is, the couch on which servants carry a king of Solomon!
Around it are sixty mighty men,
    some of the mighty men of Israel,
all of them wearing swords
    and expert in war,
each with his sword at his thigh,
    against terror by night.
King Solomon made himself a carriage 11 3:9 Or sedan chair
    from the wood of Lebanon.
10  He made its posts of silver,
    its back of gold, its seat of purple;
its interior was inlaid with love
    by the daughters of Jerusalem.
11  Go out, O daughters of Zion,
    and look upon King Solomon,
with the crown with which his mother crowned him
    on the day of his wedding,
    on the day of the gladness of his heart.

Solomon Admires His Bride's Beauty

He

Behold, you are beautiful, my love,
    behold, you are beautiful!
Your eyes are doves
    behind your veil.
Your hair is like a flock of goats
    leaping down the slopes of Gilead.
Your teeth are like a flock of shorn ewes
    that have come up from the washing,
all of which bear twins,
    and not one among them has lost its young.
Your lips are like a scarlet thread,
    and your mouth is lovely.
Your cheeks are like halves of a pomegranate
    behind your veil.
Your neck is like the tower of David,
    built in rows of stone; 12 4:4 The meaning of the Hebrew word is uncertain
on it hang a thousand shields,
    all of them shields of warriors.
Your two breasts are like two fawns,
    twins of a gazelle,
    that graze among the lilies.
Until the day breathes
    and the shadows flee,
I will go away to the mountain of myrrh
    and the hill of frankincense.
You are altogether beautiful, my love;
    there is no flaw in you.
Come with me from Lebanon, my bride;
    come with me from Lebanon.
Depart 13 4:8 Or Look from the peak of Amana,
    from the peak of Senir and Hermon,
from the dens of lions,
    from the mountains of leopards.

You have captivated my heart, my sister, my bride;
    you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes,
    with one jewel of your necklace.
10  How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride!
    How much better is your love than wine,
    and the fragrance of your oils than any spice!
11  Your lips drip nectar, my bride;
    honey and milk are under your tongue;
    the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon.
12  A garden locked is my sister, my bride,
    a spring locked, a fountain sealed.
13  Your shoots are an orchard of pomegranates
    with all choicest fruits,
    henna with nard,
14  nard and saffron, calamus and cinnamon,
    with all trees of frankincense,
myrrh and aloes,
    with all choice spices—
15  a garden fountain, a well of living water,
    and flowing streams from Lebanon.

16  Awake, O north wind,
    and come, O south wind!
Blow upon my garden,
    let its spices flow.

Together in the Garden of Love

She

Let my beloved come to his garden,
    and eat its choicest fruits.

He

I came to my garden, my sister, my bride,
    I gathered my myrrh with my spice,
    I ate my honeycomb with my honey,
    I drank my wine with my milk.

Others

Eat, friends, drink,
    and be drunk with love!

The Bride Searches for Her Beloved

She

I slept, but my heart was awake.
A sound! My beloved is knocking.
“Open to me, my sister, my love,
    my dove, my perfect one,
for my head is wet with dew,
    my locks with the drops of the night.”
I had put off my garment;
    how could I put it on?
I had bathed my feet;
    how could I soil them?
My beloved put his hand to the latch,
    and my heart was thrilled within me.
I arose to open to my beloved,
    and my hands dripped with myrrh,
my fingers with liquid myrrh,
    on the handles of the bolt.
I opened to my beloved,
    but my beloved had turned and gone.
My soul failed me when he spoke.
I sought him, but found him not;
    I called him, but he gave no answer.
The watchmen found me
    as they went about in the city;
they beat me, they bruised me,
    they took away my veil,
    those watchmen of the walls.
I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem,
    if you find my beloved,
that you tell him
    I am sick with love.

Others

What is your beloved more than another beloved,
    O most beautiful among women?
What is your beloved more than another beloved,
    that you thus adjure us?

The Bride Praises Her Beloved

She

10  My beloved is radiant and ruddy,
    distinguished among ten thousand.
11  His head is the finest gold;
    his locks are wavy,
    black as a raven.
12  His eyes are like doves
    beside streams of water,
bathed in milk,
    sitting beside a full pool. 14 5:12 The meaning of the Hebrew is uncertain
13  His cheeks are like beds of spices,
    mounds of sweet-smelling herbs.
His lips are lilies,
    dripping liquid myrrh.
14  His arms are rods of gold,
    set with jewels.
His body is polished ivory, 15 5:14 The meaning of the Hebrew word is uncertain
    bedecked with sapphires. 16 5:14 Hebrew lapis lazuli
15  His legs are alabaster columns,
    set on bases of gold.
His appearance is like Lebanon,
    choice as the cedars.
16  His mouth 17 5:16 Hebrew palate is most sweet,
    and he is altogether desirable.
This is my beloved and this is my friend,
    O daughters of Jerusalem.

Others

Where has your beloved gone,
    O most beautiful among women?
Where has your beloved turned,
    that we may seek him with you?

Together in the Garden of Love

She

My beloved has gone down to his garden
    to the beds of spices,
to graze 18 6:2 Or to pasture his flock; also verse 3 in the gardens
    and to gather lilies.
I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine;
    he grazes among the lilies.

Solomon and His Bride Delight in Each Other

He

You are beautiful as Tirzah, my love,
    lovely as Jerusalem,
    awesome as an army with banners.
Turn away your eyes from me,
    for they overwhelm me—
Your hair is like a flock of goats
    leaping down the slopes of Gilead.
Your teeth are like a flock of ewes
    that have come up from the washing;
all of them bear twins;
    not one among them has lost its young.
Your cheeks are like halves of a pomegranate
    behind your veil.
There are sixty queens and eighty concubines,
    and virgins without number.
My dove, my perfect one, is the only one,
    the only one of her mother,
    pure to her who bore her.
The young women saw her and called her blessed;
    the queens and concubines also, and they praised her.

10  “Who is this who looks down like the dawn,
    beautiful as the moon, bright as the sun,
    awesome as an army with banners?”

She

11  I went down to the nut orchard
    to look at the blossoms of the valley,
to see whether the vines had budded,
    whether the pomegranates were in bloom.
12  Before I was aware, my desire set me
    among the chariots of my kinsman, a prince. 19 6:12 Or chariots of Ammi-Nadib

Others

13  20 6:13 Ch 7:1 in Hebrew Return, return, O Shulammite,
    return, return, that we may look upon you.

He

Why should you look upon the Shulammite,
    as upon a dance before two armies? 21 6:13 Or dance of Mahanaim

How beautiful are your feet in sandals,
    O noble daughter!
Your rounded thighs are like jewels,
    the work of a master hand.
Your navel is a rounded bowl
    that never lacks mixed wine.
Your belly is a heap of wheat,
    encircled with lilies.
Your two breasts are like two fawns,
    twins of a gazelle.
Your neck is like an ivory tower.
Your eyes are pools in Heshbon,
    by the gate of Bath-rabbim.
Your nose is like a tower of Lebanon,
    which looks toward Damascus.
Your head crowns you like Carmel,
    and your flowing locks are like purple;
    a king is held captive in the tresses.

How beautiful and pleasant you are,
    O loved one, with all your delights! 22 7:6 Or among delights
Your stature is like a palm tree,
    and your breasts are like its clusters.
I say I will climb the palm tree
    and lay hold of its fruit.
Oh may your breasts be like clusters of the vine,
    and the scent of your breath like apples,
and your mouth 23 7:9 Hebrew palate like the best wine.

She

It goes down smoothly for my beloved,
    gliding over lips and teeth. 24 7:9 Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate; Hebrew causing the lips of sleepers to speak, or gliding over the lips of those who sleep

10  I am my beloved's,
    and his desire is for me.

The Bride Gives Her Love

11  Come, my beloved,
    let us go out into the fields
    and lodge in the villages; 25 7:11 Or among the henna plants
12  let us go out early to the vineyards
    and see whether the vines have budded,
whether the grape blossoms have opened
    and the pomegranates are in bloom.
There I will give you my love.
13  The mandrakes give forth fragrance,
    and beside our doors are all choice fruits,
new as well as old,
    which I have laid up for you, O my beloved.

Longing for Her Beloved

Oh that you were like a brother to me
    who nursed at my mother's breasts!
If I found you outside, I would kiss you,
    and none would despise me.
I would lead you and bring you
    into the house of my mother—
    she who used to teach me.
I would give you spiced wine to drink,
    the juice of my pomegranate.
His left hand is under my head,
    and his right hand embraces me!
I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem,
    that you not stir up or awaken love
    until it pleases.

Who is that coming up from the wilderness,
    leaning on her beloved?

Under the apple tree I awakened you.
There your mother was in labor with you;
    there she who bore you was in labor.

Set me as a seal upon your heart,
    as a seal upon your arm,
for love is strong as death,
    jealousy 26 8:6 Or ardor is fierce as the grave. 27 8:6 Hebrew as Sheol
Its flashes are flashes of fire,
    the very flame of the LORD.
Many waters cannot quench love,
    neither can floods drown it.
If a man offered for love
    all the wealth of his house,
    he 28 8:7 Or it would be utterly despised.

Final Advice

Others

We have a little sister,
    and she has no breasts.
What shall we do for our sister
    on the day when she is spoken for?
If she is a wall,
    we will build on her a battlement of silver,
but if she is a door,
    we will enclose her with boards of cedar.

She

10  I was a wall,
    and my breasts were like towers;
then I was in his eyes
    as one who finds 29 8:10 Or brings out peace.

11  Solomon had a vineyard at Baal-hamon;
    he let out the vineyard to keepers;
    each one was to bring for its fruit a thousand pieces of silver.
12  My vineyard, my very own, is before me;
    you, O Solomon, may have the thousand,
    and the keepers of the fruit two hundred.

He

13  O you who dwell in the gardens,
    with companions listening for your voice;
    let me hear it.

She

14  Make haste, my beloved,
    and be like a gazelle
or a young stag
    on the mountains of spices.

Footnotes

[1] 1:2 The translators have added speaker identifications based on the gender and number of the Hebrew words
[2] 1:11 The Hebrew for you is feminine singular
[3] 2:1 Probably a bulb, such as a crocus, asphodel, or narcissus
[4] 2:4 Hebrew the house of wine
[5] 2:7 That is, I put you on oath; so throughout the Song
[6] 2:12 Or pruning
[7] 2:15 Or jackals
[8] 2:16 Or he pastures his flock
[9] 2:17 Or mountains of Bether
[10] 3:7 That is, the couch on which servants carry a king
[11] 3:9 Or sedan chair
[12] 4:4 The meaning of the Hebrew word is uncertain
[13] 4:8 Or Look
[14] 5:12 The meaning of the Hebrew is uncertain
[15] 5:14 The meaning of the Hebrew word is uncertain
[16] 5:14 Hebrew lapis lazuli
[17] 5:16 Hebrew palate
[18] 6:2 Or to pasture his flock; also verse 3
[19] 6:12 Or chariots of Ammi-Nadib
[20] 6:13 Ch 7:1 in Hebrew
[21] 6:13 Or dance of Mahanaim
[22] 7:6 Or among delights
[23] 7:9 Hebrew palate
[24] 7:9 Septuagint, Syriac, Vulgate; Hebrew causing the lips of sleepers to speak, or gliding over the lips of those who sleep
[25] 7:11 Or among the henna plants
[26] 8:6 Or ardor
[27] 8:6 Hebrew as Sheol
[28] 8:7 Or it
[29] 8:10 Or brings out

Dive Deeper | Song of Solomon 1–8

As a teacher and principal for more than 13 years, I have learned a lot about order. Order does matter. There is a right and a wrong way to do even the simplest things.

This is most obvious in mathematics. For all the math junkies out there, consider the order of operations acronym PEMDAS (or as I learned it, Please Excuse My Dear Aunt Sally). Simply put, this is the order you must follow to solve any mathematical problem. You can have the right numbers, the right formula, and the right understanding of how to do the problem, but if you execute it in the wrong order, the answer will be wrong every time. Why? Because order matters.

Relationships are no different. God designed romantic relationships, and they also have an “order of operations” that can be seen in Song of Solomon. It shows the progression of a couple who meet, fall in love, court, remain pure sexually, marry, have sex, fight (healthy), make up, have more sex, mature in their love for one another, and have even more sex. (See Watermark's pastoral statement on marriage, divorce, and remarriage for further study on God's design and order for marriage.) Yes, this is in the Bible!

In Song of Solomon 2:15, Solomon talks about catching the "foxes" that can ruin a relationship. Foxes are anything that seeks to destroy your relationship. They can be mental (pride, control, or lack of forgiveness), physical (immorality, harsh words, or addictions), or spiritual (lack of prayer, studying the Bible, or biblical community). Which foxes are currently destroying your relationships?

You probably noticed my bio made no sense. Although I had all of the right words and I made sure they were all true, by putting them in the wrong order (backward), it became a hot mess. I don’t know what stage of life you are in right now (single, dating, married, or single again) or the condition of your relationship, but Song of Solomon shares truths that keep the foxes out and, most importantly, put your relationship back in order.  

Discussion Questions

Since we covered eight chapters today, the discussion questions are more big picture and topical. Take some time this week to connect with your accountability partner(s) to walk through the question that applies to you. True life change comes from the application of biblical truth!

1. For teenagers: What does the Bible (and my parents) have to say about dating? Talk to them this week about present or future relationships.

2. For singles: Don't wait to get in a relationship to know what a godly one looks like. Talk to your friends about healthy relationships and how you can encourage each other toward them.

3. For dating: Is your relationship about you or God? Talk to each other about your boundaries, accountability, and how to trust God with your relationship.

4. For married: Whether you’re a rookie, a veteran, or somewhere in between, God wants the reins of your marriage. Take the marriage inventory at www.couplecheckup.com and talk to each other about the results. Then, talk to your friends about what you learned and how they can encourage you.

5.  For single again: Make a list of what you can do differently in your next relationship. Talk to your friends about what you wrote.

Helpful links

Not in a community group? Visit watermark.org/connect for the next GroupLink class.
Seriously dating or engaged? Visit watermark.org/merge for the next Merge class.

If you are interested in what my bio said, you can start from the last word in the bottom line and read up. Enjoy!