March 9, 2010

ForGiveness . . . lord, what do you ask of me?

Matthew 18:21-35

Blake Shipley
Tuesday's Devo

March 9, 2010

Tuesday's Devo

March 9, 2010

Central Truth

Forgiveness is generally not natural. It is something we learn. Rather than truly forgive, however, we usually just overlook or forget wrongs. What does Christ command and expect of me? To love as I have been loved and to forgive as I have been forgiven.

Key Verse | Matthew 18:21

Then Peter came and said to Him, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him? Up to seven times?" (Matthew 18:21)

Matthew 18:21-35

The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant

21 Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” 22 Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.

23 Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. 1 18:23 Or bondservants; also verses 28, 31 24 When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. 2 18:24 A talent was a monetary unit worth about twenty years' wages for a laborer 25 And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26 So the servant 3 18:26 Or bondservant; also verses 27, 28, 29, 32, 33 fell on his knees, imploring him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ 27 And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. 28 But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, 4 18:28 A denarius was a day's wage for a laborer and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay what you owe.’ 29 So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ 30 He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. 31 When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. 32 Then his master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ 34 And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, 5 18:34 Greek torturers until he should pay all his debt. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”

Footnotes

[1] 18:23 Or bondservants; also verses 28, 31
[2] 18:24 A talent was a monetary unit worth about twenty years' wages for a laborer
[3] 18:26 Or bondservant; also verses 27, 28, 29, 32, 33
[4] 18:28 A denarius was a day's wage for a laborer
[5] 18:34 Greek torturers

Dive Deeper | Matthew 18:21-35

It is definitely part of my personality to determine what's expected of me. In school it was, "What's it take to get an 'A'?"

The Rich Young Ruler asked the same of Jesus, but was not thrilled with His answer. (Luke 18:18-23) Likewise, Peter asked Jesus about expectations for forgiveness. Jesus responded similarly. Personally, I am not sure that I have the capacity to forgive seven times, much less seventy times seven.

Matthew 18 describes a servant's debt forgiven by his master. Practically speaking, the debt was an amount greater than any servant could reasonably acquire, much less pay. Even so, it was forgiven completely. The same forgiven servant rushed to collect a debt owed to him, showing none of the mercy or forgiveness afforded him. His master sees how the "wicked servant" responded and justly punishes him for his actions. So I ask myself, what exactly is required in such a circumstance? Jesus tells Peter, "[F]orgive your brother from your heart." (Matthew 18:35, NIV)

The daily grievances, hurt feelings, and minor offenses are easily forgiven or maybe just overlooked. It is forgiveness for the second, third, or seventy-seventh time that I need help with. 

To that, I say to myself and the wicked servant, "Maybe you don't fully understand the extent to which you have been forgiven!" The wicked servant owed 10,000 talents, which was more than his wages in a lifetime. If the debt of my sinfulness were left unpaid, it would be similarly spectacular, to say the least. So I ask myself the question again, "Jesus, what do You ask of me?" He has answered, "Have mercy on your fellow servant, just as I had on you." (Matthew 18:33, paraphrased)

Father, help me live with a greater understanding of my own canceled debt and forgive as I have been forgiven.

Discussion Questions

1. What do Jesus' parables tell us about forgiveness?

2. Do you recognize the immensity of the debt you have been forgiven?

3. Do you show mercy and extend patience and grace because you also have been forgiven much? 

4. In what ways do you rush to judge or collect debts of your own?

FAMILY DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. Do you have a hard time forgiving others when they hurt you? 

2. How many times should we forgive others?

3. Does knowing that Jesus has forgiven you of all your sins help you to forgive others?