August 8, 2012

YOU MAKE ME WANT TO BE BETTER

Ephesians 4

Katie Beth Massengill
Wednesday's Devo

August 8, 2012

Wednesday's Devo

August 8, 2012

Central Truth

Be unified with Christ to walk as children of Light.

Key Verse | Ephesians 4:31

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. (Ephesians 4:31)

Ephesians 4

Unity in the Body of Christ

I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. But grace was given to each one of us according to the measure of Christ's gift. Therefore it says,

“When he ascended on high he led a host of captives,
    and he gave gifts to men.” 1 4:8 The Greek word anthropoi can refer to both men and women

(In saying, “He ascended,” what does it mean but that he had also descended into the lower regions, the earth? 2 4:9 Or the lower parts of the earth? 10 He who descended is the one who also ascended far above all the heavens, that he might fill all things.) 11 And he gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds 3 4:11 Or pastors and teachers, 4 4:11 Or the shepherd-teachers 12 to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, 13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, 5 4:13 Greek to a full-grown man to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ, 14 so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes. 15 Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, 16 from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.

The New Life

17 Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. 18 They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. 19 They have become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity. 20 But that is not the way you learned Christ!— 21 assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, 22 to put off your old self, 6 4:22 Greek man; also verse 24 which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, 23 and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, 24 and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.

25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil. 28 Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. 29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Footnotes

[1] 4:8 The Greek word anthropoi can refer to both men and women
[2] 4:9 Or the lower parts of the earth?
[3] 4:11 Or pastors
[4] 4:11 Or the shepherd-teachers
[5] 4:13 Greek to a full-grown man
[6] 4:22 Greek man; also verse 24

Dive Deeper | Ephesians 4

God's truth is in my face daily, it seems. Yet, I still run away from His teachings -- His calling. For example, I run away from being humble, gentle, unified, having one faith, equipping one another, speaking truth, being kind, and forgiving.

It's Friday afternoon, and a deadline is quickly approaching. As I hear a knock on my office door, phrases like, "Really?," "Come on!," and "Again?," race through my mind as someone enters. As a manager, I spend numerous hours guiding, counseling, teaching, serving, and directing people. I frequently need to consider and observe what I articulate before I actually respond.

Headers for the beginning of Ephesians 4 include the word "unity" in many translations. I am often reminded that I need to be unified with Him before I can be unified with others, specifically my team members. How is my personal relationship with the Lord? Am I bonded with Him, or have I placed my thoughts and desires on the world?

In the next section of Ephesians 4, verses 17-31, headers in multiple translations read, "Living as Children of Light." In moments like the one above when I hear that knock at my door, it's my job to ask Him for assistance to speak the truth in love when all those phrases set out above race to the front of my mind. I need to ask myself first, "Are my words toward other staff useful for teaching or hurtful and demeaning?"

These passages do not tell me that I shouldn't feel angry, BUT He does provide solid direction for what that anger can do if I don't handle it correctly. The outcome of my sharp non-constructive words can push others away from having a relationship with the Lord.

A good friend once said to me, "You make me want to be better!" That statement charges me continually to live by example and to be unified with Him so I may speak in truth. It encourages me to fix my thoughts and attitudes on Him so He can make me better.

Discussion Questions

1. What is it that I do to be unified with Christ?

2. Do I have friends that charge me toward Him or further away?

3. What do I base my faith on?

4. How can I use my words to glorify Christ?

WEEKLY FAMILY ACTIVITY

August 6-10 (Ephesians 2-6)

Read Ephesians 6:10-20.

In verse 11, Paul talks about the schemes and strategies of the Devil.
• What are they?
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What does Paul say we should use to fight those schemes?

• Make a list of all the pieces of God's armor. What does each piece do?

• Go through your house and find articles of clothing to represent all the pieces of God's armor. 
Take time to review and memorize what each piece is and what it represents. Example: a hat to stand for the helmet that represents our salvation.

Activity: Write each of the following words on a separate piece of paper: truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, Word of God. Now put the clothing that represents each one across the room. If you have enough family members, you can make this into a competition by getting two piles of clothes that represent each thing. Now, draw one card from the pile, read it, and run down and get the item that represents that word. You can make it more difficult by pulling out more than one card.

Daily, we are to put on our armor so that we can withstand the attacks of the enemy. Talk together about what it looks like to put these things on every day (spending time in God's Word, praying, reminding yourself of your salvation, etc.).