March 5, 2013
Central Truth
Through His providence, God uses wayward, scared, depraved, self-righteous, selfish, hypocritical, and wrathful people (like Judah) to accomplish His plan, even to perpetuate His messianic lineage.
Now it was about three months later that Judah was informed, "Your daughter-in-law Tamar has played the harlot, and behold, she is also with child by harlotry." Then Judah said, "Bring her out and let her be burned!" (Genesis 38:24)
1 It happened at that time that Judah went down from his brothers and turned aside to a certain Adullamite, whose name was Hirah. 2 There Judah saw the daughter of a certain Canaanite whose name was Shua. He took her and went in to her, 3 and she conceived and bore a son, and he called his name Er. 4 She conceived again and bore a son, and she called his name Onan. 5 Yet again she bore a son, and she called his name Shelah. Judah 1 38:5 Hebrew He was in Chezib when she bore him.
6 And Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. 7 But Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and the LORD put him to death. 8 Then Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother's wife and perform the duty of a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for your brother.” 9 But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his. So whenever he went in to his brother's wife he would waste the semen on the ground, so as not to give offspring to his brother. 10 And what he did was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and he put him to death also. 11 Then Judah said to Tamar his daughter-in-law, “Remain a widow in your father's house, till Shelah my son grows up”—for he feared that he would die, like his brothers. So Tamar went and remained in her father's house.
12 In the course of time the wife of Judah, Shua's daughter, died. When Judah was comforted, he went up to Timnah to his sheepshearers, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite. 13 And when Tamar was told, “Your father-in-law is going up to Timnah to shear his sheep,” 14 she took off her widow's garments and covered herself with a veil, wrapping herself up, and sat at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the road to Timnah. For she saw that Shelah was grown up, and she had not been given to him in marriage. 15 When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute, for she had covered her face. 16 He turned to her at the roadside and said, “Come, let me come in to you,” for he did not know that she was his daughter-in-law. She said, “What will you give me, that you may come in to me?” 17 He answered, “I will send you a young goat from the flock.” And she said, “If you give me a pledge, until you send it—” 18 He said, “What pledge shall I give you?” She replied, “Your signet and your cord and your staff that is in your hand.” So he gave them to her and went in to her, and she conceived by him. 19 Then she arose and went away, and taking off her veil she put on the garments of her widowhood.
20 When Judah sent the young goat by his friend the Adullamite to take back the pledge from the woman's hand, he did not find her. 21 And he asked the men of the place, “Where is the cult prostitute 2 38:21 Hebrew sacred woman; a woman who served a pagan deity by prostitution; also verse 22 who was at Enaim at the roadside?” And they said, “No cult prostitute has been here.” 22 So he returned to Judah and said, “I have not found her. Also, the men of the place said, ‘No cult prostitute has been here.’” 23 And Judah replied, “Let her keep the things as her own, or we shall be laughed at. You see, I sent this young goat, and you did not find her.”
24 About three months later Judah was told, “Tamar your daughter-in-law has been immoral. 3 38:24 Or has committed prostitution Moreover, she is pregnant by immorality.” 4 38:24 Or by prostitution And Judah said, “Bring her out, and let her be burned.” 25 As she was being brought out, she sent word to her father-in-law, “By the man to whom these belong, I am pregnant.” And she said, “Please identify whose these are, the signet and the cord and the staff.” 26 Then Judah identified them and said, “She is more righteous than I, since I did not give her to my son Shelah.” And he did not know her again.
27 When the time of her labor came, there were twins in her womb. 28 And when she was in labor, one put out a hand, and the midwife took and tied a scarlet thread on his hand, saying, “This one came out first.” 29 But as he drew back his hand, behold, his brother came out. And she said, “What a breach you have made for yourself!” Therefore his name was called Perez. 5 38:29 Perez means a breach 30 Afterward his brother came out with the scarlet thread on his hand, and his name was called Zerah.
Judah lived like he was his own man, master of his own destiny. It didn't go well. He abandoned his widowed daughter-in-law, slept with her (thinking she was a temple prostitute), and then condemned her for prostitution. His life was out of control! And yet God used him. In fact, Judah is the direct ancestor of Jesus.
My personality tries to control those things I can and tries to plan for those I can't. As a business owner, I want to control corporate success through a strategic plan. As a father, I try to control my kids by telling them that they live under the rule of a monarchy until they are financially independent. And as a husband, I attempt to control my wife by using my presence, logic, and debate skill. But at the end of the day, what can I really control in this world? Not much! Proverbs 21:30 (NIV) says, "There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD." The Lord, in His providence, has a plan for me. Romans 8:28 and Jeremiah 29:11 assure me that His plan is good. So why spend any time worrying about those things I can't control, and why not simply surrender to the truth that God is in control of everything and His plan is perfect? Well, like everyone else, my problem is sin.
Even though I pray to the Lord daily and seek His wisdom, guidance, and counsel, there are days when I turn to self-sufficiency and self-dependence. Once I realize I'm isolating from God, I pray for forgiveness and follow the advice of Solomon, who said, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6) Though I am inconsistent in my submission to God, He can still use me, a sinner, to accomplish His plan.
1. In what ways do you try to control your world?
2. When you make plans for your life, do you seek the Lord's counsel, or do you isolate and rely on yourself?
3. Do you believe God has a good plan for your life? Do you truly believe He can use you, a sinner, to accomplish His plan? Or do you believe your sins are so bad that there is no way God can use you to achieve His purpose?