June 16, 2010
Central Truth
God measures our lives by how we love.
Jesus answered, "The foremost is, 'Hear, O Israel! The Lord our God is one Lord; and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.' The second is this, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these." (Mark 12:29-31)
13 And they sent to him some of the Pharisees and some of the Herodians, to trap him in his talk. 14 And they came and said to him, “Teacher, we know that you are true and do not care about anyone's opinion. For you are not swayed by appearances, 1 12:14 Greek you do not look at people's faces but truly teach the way of God. Is it lawful to pay taxes to Caesar, or not? Should we pay them, or should we not?” 15 But, knowing their hypocrisy, he said to them, “Why put me to the test? Bring me a denarius 2 12:15 A denarius was a day's wage for a laborer and let me look at it.” 16 And they brought one. And he said to them, “Whose likeness and inscription is this?” They said to him, “Caesar's.” 17 Jesus said to them, “Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's.” And they marveled at him.
18 And Sadducees came to him, who say that there is no resurrection. And they asked him a question, saying, 19 “Teacher, Moses wrote for us that if a man's brother dies and leaves a wife, but leaves no child, the man 3 12:19 Greek his brother must take the widow and raise up offspring for his brother. 20 There were seven brothers; the first took a wife, and when he died left no offspring. 21 And the second took her, and died, leaving no offspring. And the third likewise. 22 And the seven left no offspring. Last of all the woman also died. 23 In the resurrection, when they rise again, whose wife will she be? For the seven had her as wife.”
24 Jesus said to them, “Is this not the reason you are wrong, because you know neither the Scriptures nor the power of God? 25 For when they rise from the dead, they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven. 26 And as for the dead being raised, have you not read in the book of Moses, in the passage about the bush, how God spoke to him, saying, ‘I am the God of Abraham, and the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob’? 27 He is not God of the dead, but of the living. You are quite wrong.”
28 And one of the scribes came up and heard them disputing with one another, and seeing that he answered them well, asked him, “Which commandment is the most important of all?” 29 Jesus answered, “The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30 And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ 31 The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” 32 And the scribe said to him, “You are right, Teacher. You have truly said that he is one, and there is no other besides him. 33 And to love him with all the heart and with all the understanding and with all the strength, and to love one's neighbor as oneself, is much more than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices.” 34 And when Jesus saw that he answered wisely, he said to him, “You are not far from the kingdom of God.” And after that no one dared to ask him any more questions.
35 And as Jesus taught in the temple, he said, “How can the scribes say that the Christ is the son of David? 36 David himself, in the Holy Spirit, declared,
‘The Lord said to my Lord,
“Sit at my right hand,
until I put your enemies under your feet.”’
37 David himself calls him Lord. So how is he his son?” And the great throng heard him gladly.
38 And in his teaching he said, “Beware of the scribes, who like to walk around in long robes and like greetings in the marketplaces 39 and have the best seats in the synagogues and the places of honor at feasts, 40 who devour widows' houses and for a pretense make long prayers. They will receive the greater condemnation.”
Over the years, I’ve lived in many different places. One thing I’ve learned is that every culture has its own way of measuring who’s successful and who’s not. In Boston, the success metric revolves around education. Your success (and value) is, in large part, based on where you went to school. In Washington, D.C., it’s about power. Your job title and the amount of power you wield matter. In Dallas, the metric is stuff. Success is determined by how much you own, where you live, what you wear, or what you drive.
In Jesus’ day, the Pharisees had their own way of measuring success. What mattered to them was how well an individual kept the religious laws of the day. Those who strictly followed the rules were considered successful and were deemed worthy of God’s love. Those who didn’t were considered unsuccessful and unworthy of God’s love.
That’s the context in which a teacher of the law asked Jesus what the greatest law was. Jesus’ response? Love God and love people. That’s God’s success metric. He measures our lives by how we love.
I wish I could say that I excel at loving God and loving people. But the truth is, my values don’t always line up with God’s values. Too often, I find myself focused on what I want rather than on loving Him and serving others. I’m quick to measure my life by schools that I’ve attended, jobs that I’ve held, and things I’ve accomplished rather than how I’m doing in the area that matters most to Him—love.
Perhaps that’s true of you as well. It’s easy to focus on the things the world says are important. We focus energy on the money we can make, the school we want to attend, the job we desire, the house we want to own, the body we aspire to have, and the person we want to marry. In the process we neglect what really matters—our relationships with God and others.
This passage offers us a wake-up call on what really matters. So how are you doing?
1. How are you measuring success these days?
2. Would those around you say you’re doing well at loving and following God? What’s one change you could make to help you take the next step in this area?
3. How are you doing at loving others—your family, friends, co-workers, the less fortunate, etc.? Is this a top priority for you, or does it often get shifted to the back burner? What’s one thing you can do today to love someone in your life?
FAMILY DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Whose son or daughter are you?
2. Whose son did the people say Jesus was in verse 35?
3. Read Matthew 1:1-17. Is Jesus in the family of David?
4. Who did David say Jesus would be in verse 36?
5. Is it possible for Jesus to be both?
6. Think of an example in your life in which someone is two different “things”? (i.e. you are a son or daughter and a friend.)