July 22, 2009

Country blue cross stitch with beautiful wisdom!

Proverbs 31

Suzanne Silva
Wednesday's Devo

July 22, 2009

Wednesday's Devo

July 22, 2009

Central Truth

Fear the Lord, and you will have the wisdom to walk well in life and bring glory to God. God allows us to learn as we go, and He can transform us into a righteous leader with a noble character.

Key Verse | Proverbs 31:30

Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting,
but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.
(Proverbs 31:30)

Proverbs 31

The Words of King Lemuel

The words of King Lemuel. An oracle that his mother taught him:

What are you doing, my son? 1 31:2 Hebrew What, my son? What are you doing, son of my womb?
    What are you doing, son of my vows?
Do not give your strength to women,
    your ways to those who destroy kings.
It is not for kings, O Lemuel,
    it is not for kings to drink wine,
    or for rulers to take strong drink,
lest they drink and forget what has been decreed
    and pervert the rights of all the afflicted.
Give strong drink to the one who is perishing,
    and wine to those in bitter distress; 2 31:6 Hebrew those bitter in soul
let them drink and forget their poverty
    and remember their misery no more.
Open your mouth for the mute,
    for the rights of all who are destitute. 3 31:8 Hebrew are sons of passing away
Open your mouth, judge righteously,
    defend the rights of the poor and needy.

The Woman Who Fears the LORD

10  4 31:10 Verses 1031 are an acrostic poem, each verse beginning with the successive letters of the Hebrew alphabet An excellent wife who can find?
    She is far more precious than jewels.
11  The heart of her husband trusts in her,
    and he will have no lack of gain.
12  She does him good, and not harm,
    all the days of her life.
13  She seeks wool and flax,
    and works with willing hands.
14  She is like the ships of the merchant;
    she brings her food from afar.
15  She rises while it is yet night
    and provides food for her household
    and portions for her maidens.
16  She considers a field and buys it;
    with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.
17  She dresses herself 5 31:17 Hebrew She girds her loins with strength
    and makes her arms strong.
18  She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.
    Her lamp does not go out at night.
19  She puts her hands to the distaff,
    and her hands hold the spindle.
20  She opens her hand to the poor
    and reaches out her hands to the needy.
21  She is not afraid of snow for her household,
    for all her household are clothed in scarlet. 6 31:21 Or in double thickness
22  She makes bed coverings for herself;
    her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23  Her husband is known in the gates
    when he sits among the elders of the land.
24  She makes linen garments and sells them;
    she delivers sashes to the merchant.
25  Strength and dignity are her clothing,
    and she laughs at the time to come.
26  She opens her mouth with wisdom,
    and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27  She looks well to the ways of her household
    and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28  Her children rise up and call her blessed;
    her husband also, and he praises her:
29  “Many women have done excellently,
    but you surpass them all.”
30  Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
    but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31  Give her of the fruit of her hands,
    and let her works praise her in the gates.

Footnotes

[1] 31:2 Hebrew What, my son?
[2] 31:6 Hebrew those bitter in soul
[3] 31:8 Hebrew are sons of passing away
[4] 31:10 Verses 10–31 are an acrostic poem, each verse beginning with the successive letters of the Hebrew alphabet
[5] 31:17 Hebrew She girds her loins
[6] 31:21 Or in double thickness

Dive Deeper | Proverbs 31

I laughed when I was assigned Proverbs 31. I received a cross stitch of The Virtuous Woman, Proverbs 31 for a wedding present from one of my dear friends. She sewed this country blue-themed picture and had it matted and framed. At the time, I did not begin to understand that God wanted me to be or could help me be a "Proverbs 31 woman." But God is about changing people through the way He loves us, and He gives us time to comprehend how we can be far more than what we limit ourselves to in our minds. He chooses us not by who we are, but by who He is and what He can do with us.

Over the years, I think I have achieved some of the accomplishments listed in Proverbs 31. But I often have to ask myself if I am just checking items off the list. Sometimes, I question whether I am praying and trying to do life to please God for His glory or for my own glory.
 
Pride can be a big stumbling block for me. Proverbs 11:2 says, "When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom." That "humility" word gets me. Fortunately, I have Jesus as my perfect example to learn how to live humbly and put others first as I live for God's greater plans. I want to be the woman who has my heart for God, and people can say, "She opens her mouth with wisdom, and loving instruction is on her tongue." (Proverbs 31:26)

In the beginning of Proverbs 31, King Lemuel's mother gave him important wisdom to share about how to be a leader who judged rightly, spoke wisdom, and considered the needs of the poor. I pray that I am imparting God's wisdom to my children like his mother did to him. It is a mighty task to instruct my kids well, but God will use me if I surrender my job to Him, fear Him, and use His Word as my ultimate guide.

Discussion Questions

1. Do you have your Proverbs 31 list going, and are you humbly asking God what He wants you to do today as you honor Him more than man?

2. What are the pride areas of your resume that need to be checked? Do you need to confess any of these to a friend to keep you accountable? 

3. Wherever you are, are you speaking God's wisdom and loving instruction to your fellow workers, spouses, friends, or children?