July 19, 2011
Central Truth
God's heart aches when He has to discipline His children.
"As for you, take up a lamentation for the princes of Israel." . . . This is a lamentation, and has become a lamentation. (Ezekiel 19:1, 14b)
1 And you, take up a lamentation for the princes of Israel, 2 and say:
What was your mother? A lioness!
Among lions she crouched;
in the midst of young lions
she reared her cubs.
3
And she brought up one of her cubs;
he became a young lion,
and he learned to catch prey;
he devoured men.
4
The nations heard about him;
he was caught in their pit,
and they brought him with hooks
to the land of Egypt.
5
When she saw that she waited in vain,
that her hope was lost,
she took another of her cubs
and made him a young lion.
6
He prowled among the lions;
he became a young lion,
and he learned to catch prey;
he devoured men,
7
and seized
1
19:7
Hebrew knew
their widows.
He laid waste their cities,
and the land was appalled and all who were in it
at the sound of his roaring.
8
Then the nations set against him
from provinces on every side;
they spread their net over him;
he was taken in their pit.
9
With hooks they put him in a cage
2
19:9
Or in a wooden collar
and brought him to the king of Babylon;
they brought him into custody,
that his voice should no more be heard
on the mountains of Israel.
10
Your mother was like a vine in a vineyard
3
19:10
Some Hebrew manuscripts; most Hebrew manuscripts in your blood
planted by the water,
fruitful and full of branches
by reason of abundant water.
11
Its strong stems became
rulers' scepters;
it towered aloft
among the thick boughs;
4
19:11
Or the clouds
it was seen in its height
with the mass of its branches.
12
But the vine was plucked up in fury,
cast down to the ground;
the east wind dried up its fruit;
they were stripped off and withered.
As for its strong stem,
fire consumed it.
13
Now it is planted in the wilderness,
in a dry and thirsty land.
14
And fire has gone out from the stem of its shoots,
has consumed its fruit,
so that there remains in it no strong stem,
no scepter for ruling.
This is a lamentation and has become a lamentation.
Because one of our two sons was a classic strong-willed child, I needed all the help I could get on child discipline. One wise writer advised parents never to discipline in anger. I knew that sounded right, but I just could not wait until I was not mad anymore! When I spanked my little rebellious one, I confess, it felt good! (If you ask him today, he will say it was discipline, not abuse. I promise.) But it surely did not feel good when we had to carry out the consequences of sinful choices in meting out discipline. It grieved my heart to see my children suffer because of their choices. Yet, building their character was more important than "keeping them happy" by escaping the consequences of sin.
Hebrews 12 reminds us that God disciplines those He loves. Because He loves us, He hurts when He has to discipline us.
The bookends of today's chapter announce this section as a lamentation. God tells Ezekiel to take up a funeral dirge, grieving over the evil kings of Israel and the loss of the once-vibrant nation of Israel. The kings had fallen so far from the glory of David and Solomon, and the nation had fallen so far from God's intention of serving as a source of light and truth to the nations. In fact, portraying Israel as a vineyard, the source of wine, was God's way of saying that He wanted to bring joy to other nations through His beloved people. But they chose the idols and the sinful lifestyles of their surrounding neighbors over a relationship with the true and living God who delighted in them. That hurt God's heart. It made Him deeply sad.
When He tells Ezekiel to "take up a lamentation," God is inviting His prophet to express God's own broken heart. God grieved that His people had rebelled so greatly against not just His laws, but His heart and His character. We see not even a hint of perverse, angry pleasure in allowing judgment to come to Israel. God wept at the consequences of Israel's disobedience. It's His lament, too.
1. Were you ever disciplined by a parent or authority figure who said, "This hurts me more than you?"
2. Can you allow yourself to think of your heavenly Father hurting because of His love when He disciplines you?
3. Is there any disobedience in your life that would cause God to lament? If so, are you willing to confess it, repent, and receive His forgiveness and cleansing (1 John 1:9)?
WEEKLY FAMILY ACTIVITY
EZEKIEL 18-22 (JULY 18-22)
Read Ezekiel 18:30-32.
What does it mean to "repent"? What was God calling the people to repent of?
When we repent, we agree with God that our sin is wrong, and then we TURN AWAY from it and TURN TO the path God wants us to travel.
Read 1 John 1:9.
Are there any sins that you need to confess and repent of before the Lord? What would TURNING AWAY from those look like? And what would you be TURNING TO (i.e. heart of love, words of kindness, etc.)?
ACTIVITY: Give each person an index card. On one side of the card write: TURN AWAY. On this side of the card write down the sins that you need to repent of and TURN AWAY from. On the other side of the card write TURN TO. On this side write the opposite of each of the things you are turning away from and what God would want you to TURN TO. Example: TURN AWAY from disrespect. TURN TO kind words and love.
Trade cards and pray for each other all week to TURN TO God's ways. Throughout this week, memorize 1 John 1:9 as a family.