July 17, 2009

Thanks for a slap in the face

Proverbs 28

Meredith Ratliff
Friday's Devo

July 17, 2009

Friday's Devo

July 17, 2009

Central Truth

Flattery does not sharpen us or make us more Christlike.

Key Verse | Proverbs 28:23

The one who reproves another will in the end find more favor
than the one who flatters with the tongue.
(Proverbs 28:23)

Proverbs 28

The wicked flee when no one pursues,
    but the righteous are bold as a lion.
When a land transgresses, it has many rulers,
    but with a man of understanding and knowledge,
    its stability will long continue.
A poor man who oppresses the poor
    is a beating rain that leaves no food.
Those who forsake the law praise the wicked,
    but those who keep the law strive against them.
Evil men do not understand justice,
    but those who seek the LORD understand it completely.
Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity
    than a rich man who is crooked in his ways.
The one who keeps the law is a son with understanding,
    but a companion of gluttons shames his father.
Whoever multiplies his wealth by interest and profit 1 28:8 That is, profit that comes from charging interest to the poor
    gathers it for him who is generous to the poor.
If one turns away his ear from hearing the law,
    even his prayer is an abomination.
10  Whoever misleads the upright into an evil way
    will fall into his own pit,
    but the blameless will have a goodly inheritance.
11  A rich man is wise in his own eyes,
    but a poor man who has understanding will find him out.
12  When the righteous triumph, there is great glory,
    but when the wicked rise, people hide themselves.
13  Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper,
    but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.
14  Blessed is the one who fears the LORD 2 28:14 Hebrew lacks the LORD always,
    but whoever hardens his heart will fall into calamity.
15  Like a roaring lion or a charging bear
    is a wicked ruler over a poor people.
16  A ruler who lacks understanding is a cruel oppressor,
    but he who hates unjust gain will prolong his days.
17  If one is burdened with the blood of another,
    he will be a fugitive until death; 3 28:17 Hebrew until the pit
    let no one help him.
18  Whoever walks in integrity will be delivered,
    but he who is crooked in his ways will suddenly fall.
19  Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread,
    but he who follows worthless pursuits will have plenty of poverty.
20  A faithful man will abound with blessings,
    but whoever hastens to be rich will not go unpunished.
21  To show partiality is not good,
    but for a piece of bread a man will do wrong.
22  A stingy man 4 28:22 Hebrew A man whose eye is evil hastens after wealth
    and does not know that poverty will come upon him.
23  Whoever rebukes a man will afterward find more favor
    than he who flatters with his tongue.
24  Whoever robs his father or his mother
    and says, “That is no transgression,”
    is a companion to a man who destroys.
25  A greedy man stirs up strife,
    but the one who trusts in the LORD will be enriched.
26  Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool,
    but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered.
27  Whoever gives to the poor will not want,
    but he who hides his eyes will get many a curse.
28  When the wicked rise, people hide themselves,
    but when they perish, the righteous increase.

Footnotes

[1] 28:8 That is, profit that comes from charging interest to the poor
[2] 28:14 Hebrew lacks the LORD
[3] 28:17 Hebrew until the pit
[4] 28:22 Hebrew A man whose eye is evil

Dive Deeper | Proverbs 28

Let's face it. It stinks to have someone call you out when you sin. During my senior year of college, my roommate confronted me about my general negative attitude. She told me that sometimes she felt discouraged after being around me. She suggested that I rethink how I respond to stressful situations so that my actions would better represent Christ.

That was hard to hear. Do you think I thanked her for her honesty with me? Do you think I praised the Lord that I had such a great friend to confront me in this highly visible sin pattern? No, I was pretty ticked off. I thought, "Who is she to tell me that I'm a negative person? She has lots of problems in her own life!" 

All too often, this is the way we approach correction. Instead of coming up with a game plan to change, we get angry at the person who is speaking into our lives. As we saw in yesterday's Journey entry, Proverbs 27:5 says, "Better is open rebuke than hidden love." Verse 6 goes on to say, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are excessive." According to Scripture, we should be wary of people who give us too much flattery or lip service. A true friend gently confronts and corrects us when we veer off course.  

When someone is confronting us in love, we should take a deep breath and humbly analyze our own actions. We have the body of believers and the living Word of God to help us identify how to become more like Christ. Praise God for close friends who are willing to steer us in the right direction. Sin can blind us, and sometimes we need other believers to help guide us.

Discussion Questions

1. Do you have a group of believers around you who are able to speak into your life if needed? If not, what are your barriers to being in community?

2. Have you recently been confronted by a fellow believer about a sin in your life? How are you receiving that correction?

3. Are you a friend who flatters or a friend who rebukes? Are you willing to gently correct a fellow believer if he or she is sinning?