June 29, 2009

GETTING MY HANDS DIRTY

Proverbs 14

Jenny Bradford
Monday's Devo

June 29, 2009

Monday's Devo

June 29, 2009

Central Truth

The fullest life that God intends for His children is not always effortless.

Key Verse | Proverbs 14:4

Where there are no oxen, the feeding trough is clean,
but an abundant harvest is produced by strong oxen.
(Proverbs 14:4)

Proverbs 14

The wisest of women builds her house,
    but folly with her own hands tears it down.
Whoever walks in uprightness fears the LORD,
    but he who is devious in his ways despises him.
By the mouth of a fool comes a rod for his back, 1 14:3 Or In the mouth of a fool is a rod of pride
    but the lips of the wise will preserve them.
Where there are no oxen, the manger is clean,
    but abundant crops come by the strength of the ox.
A faithful witness does not lie,
    but a false witness breathes out lies.
A scoffer seeks wisdom in vain,
    but knowledge is easy for a man of understanding.
Leave the presence of a fool,
    for there you do not meet words of knowledge.
The wisdom of the prudent is to discern his way,
    but the folly of fools is deceiving.
Fools mock at the guilt offering,
    but the upright enjoy acceptance. 2 14:9 Hebrew but among the upright is acceptance
10  The heart knows its own bitterness,
    and no stranger shares its joy.
11  The house of the wicked will be destroyed,
    but the tent of the upright will flourish.
12  There is a way that seems right to a man,
    but its end is the way to death. 3 14:12 Hebrew ways of death
13  Even in laughter the heart may ache,
    and the end of joy may be grief.
14  The backslider in heart will be filled with the fruit of his ways,
    and a good man will be filled with the fruit of his ways.
15  The simple believes everything,
    but the prudent gives thought to his steps.
16  One who is wise is cautious 4 14:16 Or fears [the LORD] and turns away from evil,
    but a fool is reckless and careless.
17  A man of quick temper acts foolishly,
    and a man of evil devices is hated.
18  The simple inherit folly,
    but the prudent are crowned with knowledge.
19  The evil bow down before the good,
    the wicked at the gates of the righteous.
20  The poor is disliked even by his neighbor,
    but the rich has many friends.
21  Whoever despises his neighbor is a sinner,
    but blessed is he who is generous to the poor.
22  Do they not go astray who devise evil?
    Those who devise good meet 5 14:22 Or show steadfast love and faithfulness.
23  In all toil there is profit,
    but mere talk tends only to poverty.
24  The crown of the wise is their wealth,
    but the folly of fools brings folly.
25  A truthful witness saves lives,
    but one who breathes out lies is deceitful.
26  In the fear of the LORD one has strong confidence,
    and his children will have a refuge.
27  The fear of the LORD is a fountain of life,
    that one may turn away from the snares of death.
28  In a multitude of people is the glory of a king,
    but without people a prince is ruined.
29  Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding,
    but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly.
30  A tranquil 6 14:30 Or healing heart gives life to the flesh,
    but envy 7 14:30 Or jealousy makes the bones rot.
31  Whoever oppresses a poor man insults his Maker,
    but he who is generous to the needy honors him.
32  The wicked is overthrown through his evildoing,
    but the righteous finds refuge in his death.
33  Wisdom rests in the heart of a man of understanding,
    but it makes itself known even in the midst of fools. 8 14:33 Or Wisdom rests quietly in the heart of a man of understanding, but makes itself known in the midst of fools
34  Righteousness exalts a nation,
    but sin is a reproach to any people.
35  A servant who deals wisely has the king's favor,
    but his wrath falls on one who acts shamefully.

Footnotes

[1] 14:3 Or In the mouth of a fool is a rod of pride
[2] 14:9 Hebrew but among the upright is acceptance
[3] 14:12 Hebrew ways of death
[4] 14:16 Or fears [the LORD]
[5] 14:22 Or show
[6] 14:30 Or healing
[7] 14:30 Or jealousy
[8] 14:33 Or Wisdom rests quietly in the heart of a man of understanding, but makes itself known in the midst of fools

Dive Deeper | Proverbs 14

Since my primary area of service outside formal ministry is within my own marriage, the first verse in this passage really jumped out at me: "Every wise woman builds her household, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands." (Proverbs 14:1) I really want to be the wise woman, not the foolish one. As I read through this chapter, the author provides a list of ways to live a life of wisdom.

  •  Walk uprightly
  •  Speak truthfully
  •  Avoid scornful thinking
  •  Choose discernment
  •  Cautiously avoid evil
  •  Plan for good
  •  Exhibit faithful covenant love
  •  Be slow to anger
  •  Have a tranquil spirit

Wow, what an awesome home we would have if I did these things consistently! Why don't I do all of these things every day? The analogy of the oxen in verse 4 is a good explanation. It is often easier for me to coast through my marriage and other relationships without effort and without conflict (the trough is clean, and it looks great!), but there is no harvest or growth. The growth only comes when I am willing to get my hands a little dirty. In my relationships, this means pursuing communication and working through conflict biblically. This is a huge challenge for me because I love an orderly "trough"—my house, my day, all organized! Sometimes stopping to communicate and resolve conflict isn't in my plan for the day.

In this passage, however, God shows me the following true rewards of living a life of wisdom, even when it is difficult: strong confidence (14:26), security (14:26, 32), a healthy body (14:30), wisdom (14:33), and true life (14:27). My heavenly Father truly has my best interests at heart when He asks me to live out these principles.

Discussion Questions

1. In what ways are you either building up or tearing down your close relationships?
2. How might God be calling you to a "strong harvest" by asking you to deal with your relationships in a way that isn't necessarily easy, but will honor Him? 

3. What has God said about where we can find the strength to take steps that are difficult? (hint: try Isaiah 40:28-31)