June 16, 2009
Central Truth
Always be on the lookout and guard your heart from the sinful natures of this world.
The wicked will be captured by his own iniquities,
and he will be held by the cords of his own sin.
(Proverbs 5:22)
1
My son, be attentive to my wisdom;
incline your ear to my understanding,
2
that you may keep discretion,
and your lips may guard knowledge.
3
For the lips of a forbidden
1
5:3
Hebrew strange; also verse 20
woman drip honey,
and her speech
2
5:3
Hebrew palate
is smoother than oil,
4
but in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
sharp as a two-edged sword.
5
Her feet go down to death;
her steps follow the path to
3
5:5
Hebrew lay hold of
Sheol;
6
she does not ponder the path of life;
her ways wander, and she does not know it.
7
And now, O sons, listen to me,
and do not depart from the words of my mouth.
8
Keep your way far from her,
and do not go near the door of her house,
9
lest you give your honor to others
and your years to the merciless,
10
lest strangers take their fill of your strength,
and your labors go to the house of a foreigner,
11
and at the end of your life you groan,
when your flesh and body are consumed,
12
and you say, “How I hated discipline,
and my heart despised reproof!
13
I did not listen to the voice of my teachers
or incline my ear to my instructors.
14
I am at the brink of utter ruin
in the assembled congregation.”
15
Drink water from your own cistern,
flowing water from your own well.
16
Should your springs be scattered abroad,
streams of water in the streets?
17
Let them be for yourself alone,
and not for strangers with you.
18
Let your fountain be blessed,
and rejoice in the wife of your youth,
19
a lovely deer, a graceful doe.
Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight;
be intoxicated
4
5:19
Hebrew be led astray; also verse 20
always in her love.
20
Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman
and embrace the bosom of an adulteress?
5
5:20
Hebrew a foreign woman
21
For a man's ways are before the eyes of the LORD,
and he ponders
6
5:21
Or makes level
all his paths.
22
The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him,
and he is held fast in the cords of his sin.
23
He dies for lack of discipline,
and because of his great folly he is led astray.
During my youth I often flirted with things of the world that were not always in my best interest. I made choices with little or no regard for the consequences that would accompany them. I often thought, "I can do this one time, and it won't be a problem," or "Maybe my parents won't find out." The truth of the matter is that God knew, and He continues to know.
God has reasons for us not to flirt with the desires of this world that are not from Him. Flirting with temptation can be very dangerous, "For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her seductive words are smoother than olive oil, but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword." (Proverbs 5:3-4) Substitute any sinful act instead of adultery and the outcome is the same: perceived short-term gain, but real long-term pain. God doesn't want us to get entangled in the consequences of our sin, "The wicked will be captured by his own iniquities, and he will be held by the cords of his own sin." (Proverbs 5:22)
We often try to convince ourselves that our actions are justified when in truth we ignore the Holy Spirit's urgings. God provides guidance on avoiding the pain caused by giving in to our sinful temptations. "Keep yourself far from her, and do not go near the door of her house." (Proverbs 5:8) When we start to feel any temptation, we should run the other direction. I could have avoided a lot of pain and shame if I had just stayed on the path that God intended for me. I have made changes in my life to reduce my chances of going down the wrong path. I read God's Word, and I have a group of committed individuals holding me accountable.
1. Are there areas of your life in which you are standing on the doorstep of a wrong decision? If so, what are they?
2. What are ways you can be accountable in not going down the path that leads to sin?
3. What can you do to find a committed group of individuals that holds you accountable?