September 10, 2021

Trust the Lord Because Only He Satisfies

Proverbs 25–31

Zack Gill
Friday's Devo

September 10, 2021

Friday's Devo

September 10, 2021

Central Truth

God knows that some circumstances in life will be difficult; but when we replace our desires for His, He will satisfy us beyond our imagination.

Key Verse | Proverbs 30:15b-16

Three things are never satisfied;
four never say, "Enough":
Sheol, the barren womb,
the land never satisfied with water,
and the fire that never says, "Enough."

Proverbs 25–31

More Proverbs of Solomon

These also are proverbs of Solomon which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied.

It is the glory of God to conceal things,
    but the glory of kings is to search things out.
As the heavens for height, and the earth for depth,
    so the heart of kings is unsearchable.
Take away the dross from the silver,
    and the smith has material for a vessel;
take away the wicked from the presence of the king,
    and his throne will be established in righteousness.
Do not put yourself forward in the king's presence
    or stand in the place of the great,
for it is better to be told, “Come up here,”
    than to be put lower in the presence of a noble.

What your eyes have seen
    do not hastily bring into court, 1 25:8 Or presence of a noble, as your eyes have seen. 8Do not go hastily out to court
for 2 25:8 Hebrew or else what will you do in the end,
    when your neighbor puts you to shame?
Argue your case with your neighbor himself,
    and do not reveal another's secret,
10  lest he who hears you bring shame upon you,
    and your ill repute have no end.

11  A word fitly spoken
    is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.
12  Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold
    is a wise reprover to a listening ear.
13  Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest
    is a faithful messenger to those who send him;
    he refreshes the soul of his masters.
14  Like clouds and wind without rain
    is a man who boasts of a gift he does not give.

15  With patience a ruler may be persuaded,
    and a soft tongue will break a bone.
16  If you have found honey, eat only enough for you,
    lest you have your fill of it and vomit it.
17  Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor's house,
    lest he have his fill of you and hate you.
18  A man who bears false witness against his neighbor
    is like a war club, or a sword, or a sharp arrow.
19  Trusting in a treacherous man in time of trouble
    is like a bad tooth or a foot that slips.
20  Whoever sings songs to a heavy heart
    is like one who takes off a garment on a cold day,
    and like vinegar on soda.
21  If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat,
    and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink,
22  for you will heap burning coals on his head,
    and the LORD will reward you.
23  The north wind brings forth rain,
    and a backbiting tongue, angry looks.
24  It is better to live in a corner of the housetop
    than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
25  Like cold water to a thirsty soul,
    so is good news from a far country.
26  Like a muddied spring or a polluted fountain
    is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked.
27  It is not good to eat much honey,
    nor is it glorious to seek one's own glory. 3 25:27 The meaning of the Hebrew line is uncertain
28  A man without self-control
    is like a city broken into and left without walls.
Like snow in summer or rain in harvest,
    so honor is not fitting for a fool.
Like a sparrow in its flitting, like a swallow in its flying,
    a curse that is causeless does not alight.
A whip for the horse, a bridle for the donkey,
    and a rod for the back of fools.
Answer not a fool according to his folly,
    lest you be like him yourself.
Answer a fool according to his folly,
    lest he be wise in his own eyes.
Whoever sends a message by the hand of a fool
    cuts off his own feet and drinks violence.
Like a lame man's legs, which hang useless,
    is a proverb in the mouth of fools.
Like one who binds the stone in the sling
    is one who gives honor to a fool.
Like a thorn that goes up into the hand of a drunkard
    is a proverb in the mouth of fools.
10  Like an archer who wounds everyone
    is one who hires a passing fool or drunkard. 4 26:10 Or hires a fool or passersby
11  Like a dog that returns to his vomit
    is a fool who repeats his folly.
12  Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes?
    There is more hope for a fool than for him.
13  The sluggard says, “There is a lion in the road!
    There is a lion in the streets!”
14  As a door turns on its hinges,
    so does a sluggard on his bed.
15  The sluggard buries his hand in the dish;
    it wears him out to bring it back to his mouth.
16  The sluggard is wiser in his own eyes
    than seven men who can answer sensibly.
17  Whoever meddles in a quarrel not his own
    is like one who takes a passing dog by the ears.
18  Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death
19  is the man who deceives his neighbor
    and says, “I am only joking!”
20  For lack of wood the fire goes out,
    and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases.
21  As charcoal to hot embers and wood to fire,
    so is a quarrelsome man for kindling strife.
22  The words of a whisperer are like delicious morsels;
    they go down into the inner parts of the body.
23  Like the glaze 5 26:23 By revocalization; Hebrew silver of dross covering an earthen vessel
    are fervent lips with an evil heart.
24  Whoever hates disguises himself with his lips
    and harbors deceit in his heart;
25  when he speaks graciously, believe him not,
    for there are seven abominations in his heart;
26  though his hatred be covered with deception,
    his wickedness will be exposed in the assembly.
27  Whoever digs a pit will fall into it,
    and a stone will come back on him who starts it rolling.
28  A lying tongue hates its victims,
    and a flattering mouth works ruin.
Do not boast about tomorrow,
    for you do not know what a day may bring.
Let another praise you, and not your own mouth;
    a stranger, and not your own lips.
A stone is heavy, and sand is weighty,
    but a fool's provocation is heavier than both.
Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming,
    but who can stand before jealousy?
Better is open rebuke
    than hidden love.
Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
    profuse are the kisses of an enemy.
One who is full loathes honey,
    but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet.
Like a bird that strays from its nest
    is a man who strays from his home.
Oil and perfume make the heart glad,
    and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel. 6 27:9 Or and so does the sweetness of a friend that comes from his earnest counsel
10  Do not forsake your friend and your father's friend,
    and do not go to your brother's house in the day of your calamity.
Better is a neighbor who is near
    than a brother who is far away.
11  Be wise, my son, and make my heart glad,
    that I may answer him who reproaches me.
12  The prudent sees danger and hides himself,
    but the simple go on and suffer for it.
13  Take a man's garment when he has put up security for a stranger,
    and hold it in pledge when he puts up security for an adulteress. 7 27:13 Hebrew a foreign woman; a slight emendation yields (compare Vulgate; see also 20:16) foreigners
14  Whoever blesses his neighbor with a loud voice,
    rising early in the morning,
    will be counted as cursing.
15  A continual dripping on a rainy day
    and a quarrelsome wife are alike;
16  to restrain her is to restrain the wind
    or to grasp 8 27:16 Hebrew to meet with oil in one's right hand.
17  Iron sharpens iron,
    and one man sharpens another. 9 27:17 Hebrew sharpens the face of another
18  Whoever tends a fig tree will eat its fruit,
    and he who guards his master will be honored.
19  As in water face reflects face,
    so the heart of man reflects the man.
20  Sheol and Abaddon are never satisfied,
    and never satisfied are the eyes of man.
21  The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold,
    and a man is tested by his praise.
22  Crush a fool in a mortar with a pestle
    along with crushed grain,
    yet his folly will not depart from him.

23  Know well the condition of your flocks,
    and give attention to your herds,
24  for riches do not last forever;
    and does a crown endure to all generations?
25  When the grass is gone and the new growth appears
    and the vegetation of the mountains is gathered,
26  the lambs will provide your clothing,
    and the goats the price of a field.
27  There will be enough goats' milk for your food,
    for the food of your household
    and maintenance for your girls.
The wicked flee when no one pursues,
    but the righteous are bold as a lion.
When a land transgresses, it has many rulers,
    but with a man of understanding and knowledge,
    its stability will long continue.
A poor man who oppresses the poor
    is a beating rain that leaves no food.
Those who forsake the law praise the wicked,
    but those who keep the law strive against them.
Evil men do not understand justice,
    but those who seek the LORD understand it completely.
Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity
    than a rich man who is crooked in his ways.
The one who keeps the law is a son with understanding,
    but a companion of gluttons shames his father.
Whoever multiplies his wealth by interest and profit 10 28:8 That is, profit that comes from charging interest to the poor
    gathers it for him who is generous to the poor.
If one turns away his ear from hearing the law,
    even his prayer is an abomination.
10  Whoever misleads the upright into an evil way
    will fall into his own pit,
    but the blameless will have a goodly inheritance.
11  A rich man is wise in his own eyes,
    but a poor man who has understanding will find him out.
12  When the righteous triumph, there is great glory,
    but when the wicked rise, people hide themselves.
13  Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper,
    but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.
14  Blessed is the one who fears the LORD 11 28:14 Hebrew lacks the LORD always,
    but whoever hardens his heart will fall into calamity.
15  Like a roaring lion or a charging bear
    is a wicked ruler over a poor people.
16  A ruler who lacks understanding is a cruel oppressor,
    but he who hates unjust gain will prolong his days.
17  If one is burdened with the blood of another,
    he will be a fugitive until death; 12 28:17 Hebrew until the pit
    let no one help him.
18  Whoever walks in integrity will be delivered,
    but he who is crooked in his ways will suddenly fall.
19  Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread,
    but he who follows worthless pursuits will have plenty of poverty.
20  A faithful man will abound with blessings,
    but whoever hastens to be rich will not go unpunished.
21  To show partiality is not good,
    but for a piece of bread a man will do wrong.
22  A stingy man 13 28:22 Hebrew A man whose eye is evil hastens after wealth
    and does not know that poverty will come upon him.
23  Whoever rebukes a man will afterward find more favor
    than he who flatters with his tongue.
24  Whoever robs his father or his mother
    and says, “That is no transgression,”
    is a companion to a man who destroys.
25  A greedy man stirs up strife,
    but the one who trusts in the LORD will be enriched.
26  Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool,
    but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered.
27  Whoever gives to the poor will not want,
    but he who hides his eyes will get many a curse.
28  When the wicked rise, people hide themselves,
    but when they perish, the righteous increase.
He who is often reproved, yet stiffens his neck,
    will suddenly be broken beyond healing.
When the righteous increase, the people rejoice,
    but when the wicked rule, the people groan.
He who loves wisdom makes his father glad,
    but a companion of prostitutes squanders his wealth.
By justice a king builds up the land,
    but he who exacts gifts 14 29:4 Or who taxes heavily tears it down.
A man who flatters his neighbor
    spreads a net for his feet.
An evil man is ensnared in his transgression,
    but a righteous man sings and rejoices.
A righteous man knows the rights of the poor;
    a wicked man does not understand such knowledge.
Scoffers set a city aflame,
    but the wise turn away wrath.
If a wise man has an argument with a fool,
    the fool only rages and laughs, and there is no quiet.
10  Bloodthirsty men hate one who is blameless
    and seek the life of the upright. 15 29:10 Or but the upright seek his soul
11  A fool gives full vent to his spirit,
    but a wise man quietly holds it back.
12  If a ruler listens to falsehood,
    all his officials will be wicked.
13  The poor man and the oppressor meet together;
    the LORD gives light to the eyes of both.
14  If a king faithfully judges the poor,
    his throne will be established forever.
15  The rod and reproof give wisdom,
    but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.
16  When the wicked increase, transgression increases,
    but the righteous will look upon their downfall.
17  Discipline your son, and he will give you rest;
    he will give delight to your heart.
18  Where there is no prophetic vision the people cast off restraint, 16 29:18 Or the people are discouraged
    but blessed is he who keeps the law.
19  By mere words a servant is not disciplined,
    for though he understands, he will not respond.
20  Do you see a man who is hasty in his words?
    There is more hope for a fool than for him.
21  Whoever pampers his servant from childhood
    will in the end find him his heir. 17 29:21 The meaning of the Hebrew word rendered his heir is uncertain
22  A man of wrath stirs up strife,
    and one given to anger causes much transgression.
23  One's pride will bring him low,
    but he who is lowly in spirit will obtain honor.
24  The partner of a thief hates his own life;
    he hears the curse, but discloses nothing.
25  The fear of man lays a snare,
    but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.
26  Many seek the face of a ruler,
    but it is from the LORD that a man gets justice.
27  An unjust man is an abomination to the righteous,
    but one whose way is straight is an abomination to the wicked.

The Words of Agur

The words of Agur son of Jakeh. The oracle. 18 30:1 Or Jakeh, the man of Massa

The man declares, I am weary, O God;
    I am weary, O God, and worn out. 19 30:1 Revocalization; Hebrew The man declares to Ithiel, to Ithiel and Ucal
Surely I am too stupid to be a man.
    I have not the understanding of a man.
I have not learned wisdom,
    nor have I knowledge of the Holy One.
Who has ascended to heaven and come down?
    Who has gathered the wind in his fists?
Who has wrapped up the waters in a garment?
    Who has established all the ends of the earth?
What is his name, and what is his son's name?
    Surely you know!

Every word of God proves true;
    he is a shield to those who take refuge in him.
Do not add to his words,
    lest he rebuke you and you be found a liar.

Two things I ask of you;
    deny them not to me before I die:
Remove far from me falsehood and lying;
    give me neither poverty nor riches;
    feed me with the food that is needful for me,
lest I be full and deny you
    and say, “Who is the LORD?”
or lest I be poor and steal
    and profane the name of my God.

10  Do not slander a servant to his master,
    lest he curse you, and you be held guilty.

11  There are those 20 30:11 Hebrew There is a generation; also verses 12, 13, 14 who curse their fathers
    and do not bless their mothers.
12  There are those who are clean in their own eyes
    but are not washed of their filth.
13  There are those—how lofty are their eyes,
    how high their eyelids lift!
14  There are those whose teeth are swords,
    whose fangs are knives,
to devour the poor from off the earth,
    the needy from among mankind.

15  The leech has two daughters:
    Give and Give. 21 30:15 Or Give, give, they cry
Three things are never satisfied;
    four never say, “Enough”:
16  Sheol, the barren womb,
    the land never satisfied with water,
    and the fire that never says, “Enough.”

17  The eye that mocks a father
    and scorns to obey a mother
will be picked out by the ravens of the valley
    and eaten by the vultures.

18  Three things are too wonderful for me;
    four I do not understand:
19  the way of an eagle in the sky,
    the way of a serpent on a rock,
the way of a ship on the high seas,
    and the way of a man with a virgin.

20  This is the way of an adulteress:
    she eats and wipes her mouth
    and says, “I have done no wrong.”

21  Under three things the earth trembles;
    under four it cannot bear up:
22  a slave when he becomes king,
    and a fool when he is filled with food;
23  an unloved woman when she gets a husband,
    and a maidservant when she displaces her mistress.

24  Four things on earth are small,
    but they are exceedingly wise:
25  the ants are a people not strong,
    yet they provide their food in the summer;
26  the rock badgers are a people not mighty,
    yet they make their homes in the cliffs;
27  the locusts have no king,
    yet all of them march in rank;
28  the lizard you can take in your hands,
    yet it is in kings' palaces.

29  Three things are stately in their tread;
    four are stately in their stride:
30  the lion, which is mightiest among beasts
    and does not turn back before any;
31  the strutting rooster, 22 30:31 Or the magpie, or the greyhound; Hebrew girt-of-loins the he-goat,
    and a king whose army is with him. 23 30:31 Or against whom there is no rising up

32  If you have been foolish, exalting yourself,
    or if you have been devising evil,
    put your hand on your mouth.
33  For pressing milk produces curds,
    pressing the nose produces blood,
    and pressing anger produces strife.

The Words of King Lemuel

The words of King Lemuel. An oracle that his mother taught him:

What are you doing, my son? 24 31:2 Hebrew What, my son? What are you doing, son of my womb?
    What are you doing, son of my vows?
Do not give your strength to women,
    your ways to those who destroy kings.
It is not for kings, O Lemuel,
    it is not for kings to drink wine,
    or for rulers to take strong drink,
lest they drink and forget what has been decreed
    and pervert the rights of all the afflicted.
Give strong drink to the one who is perishing,
    and wine to those in bitter distress; 25 31:6 Hebrew those bitter in soul
let them drink and forget their poverty
    and remember their misery no more.
Open your mouth for the mute,
    for the rights of all who are destitute. 26 31:8 Hebrew are sons of passing away
Open your mouth, judge righteously,
    defend the rights of the poor and needy.

The Woman Who Fears the LORD

10  27 31:10 Verses 1031 are an acrostic poem, each verse beginning with the successive letters of the Hebrew alphabet An excellent wife who can find?
    She is far more precious than jewels.
11  The heart of her husband trusts in her,
    and he will have no lack of gain.
12  She does him good, and not harm,
    all the days of her life.
13  She seeks wool and flax,
    and works with willing hands.
14  She is like the ships of the merchant;
    she brings her food from afar.
15  She rises while it is yet night
    and provides food for her household
    and portions for her maidens.
16  She considers a field and buys it;
    with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.
17  She dresses herself 28 31:17 Hebrew She girds her loins with strength
    and makes her arms strong.
18  She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.
    Her lamp does not go out at night.
19  She puts her hands to the distaff,
    and her hands hold the spindle.
20  She opens her hand to the poor
    and reaches out her hands to the needy.
21  She is not afraid of snow for her household,
    for all her household are clothed in scarlet. 29 31:21 Or in double thickness
22  She makes bed coverings for herself;
    her clothing is fine linen and purple.
23  Her husband is known in the gates
    when he sits among the elders of the land.
24  She makes linen garments and sells them;
    she delivers sashes to the merchant.
25  Strength and dignity are her clothing,
    and she laughs at the time to come.
26  She opens her mouth with wisdom,
    and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27  She looks well to the ways of her household
    and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28  Her children rise up and call her blessed;
    her husband also, and he praises her:
29  “Many women have done excellently,
    but you surpass them all.”
30  Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
    but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31  Give her of the fruit of her hands,
    and let her works praise her in the gates.

Footnotes

[1] 25:8 Or presence of a noble, as your eyes have seen. 8Do not go hastily out to court
[2] 25:8 Hebrew or else
[3] 25:27 The meaning of the Hebrew line is uncertain
[4] 26:10 Or hires a fool or passersby
[5] 26:23 By revocalization; Hebrew silver of dross
[6] 27:9 Or and so does the sweetness of a friend that comes from his earnest counsel
[7] 27:13 Hebrew a foreign woman; a slight emendation yields (compare Vulgate; see also 20:16) foreigners
[8] 27:16 Hebrew to meet with
[9] 27:17 Hebrew sharpens the face of another
[10] 28:8 That is, profit that comes from charging interest to the poor
[11] 28:14 Hebrew lacks the LORD
[12] 28:17 Hebrew until the pit
[13] 28:22 Hebrew A man whose eye is evil
[14] 29:4 Or who taxes heavily
[15] 29:10 Or but the upright seek his soul
[16] 29:18 Or the people are discouraged
[17] 29:21 The meaning of the Hebrew word rendered his heir is uncertain
[18] 30:1 Or Jakeh, the man of Massa
[19] 30:1 Revocalization; Hebrew The man declares to Ithiel, to Ithiel and Ucal
[20] 30:11 Hebrew There is a generation; also verses 12, 13, 14
[21] 30:15 Or Give, give,” they cry
[22] 30:31 Or the magpie, or the greyhound; Hebrew girt-of-loins
[23] 30:31 Or against whom there is no rising up
[24] 31:2 Hebrew What, my son?
[25] 31:6 Hebrew those bitter in soul
[26] 31:8 Hebrew are sons of passing away
[27] 31:10 Verses 10–31 are an acrostic poem, each verse beginning with the successive letters of the Hebrew alphabet
[28] 31:17 Hebrew She girds her loins
[29] 31:21 Or in double thickness

Dive Deeper | Proverbs 25–31

If you're like me, reading Proverbs is like drinking water from a fire hose! Just in these seven chapters alone is a wealth of knowledge to help us grow in wisdom. But two verses that particularly stood out to me over the past few years are Proverbs 30:15b-16. While my wife and I were struggling with infertility and repeat miscarriages, these verses spoke to me because I was having a difficult time trusting the Lord. I wasn't sure I believed that He was up to something good because I couldn't see it. These verses brought me comfort because I realized that He, the God of all creation, knew a barren womb would bring such a heavy heart to those trying to conceive, and that, while the desire for a child is a good thing, only He will ultimately satisfy. 

I put my faith in Jesus at a young age, but that season of infertility and miscarriage really begged the question of whom I was placing my trust in: myself, the doctors, or the Lord. The Lord allowed me to see that I had some preconceived ideas of how my life should go, and, while my head understood that He establishes our steps, my heart was definitely planning the course. He brought me to a spot of surrendering my desires to Him and trusting where He might be leading my wife and me, with or without children. He reminded me that so many things on this earth are never satisfied, but that He knows and cares for me individually and can fulfill the longings of my heart.

In 2019, God so graciously gave us a beautiful daughter to steward, love, and train up in the way she should go (Proverbs 22:6).  I am so incredibly thankful for that gift, but more importantly, I am thankful that He taught me even more about Himself and that I can place my trust and hope in Him in all circumstances, even if they're not going exactly as I expected.  

Discussion Questions

1. Have you been through a season of dissatisfaction with your circumstances, whether it be infertility, singleness, a job situation, financials, or something not going according to plan? How did you or can you turn that over to the Lord?

2. Can you think of a time when you placed your hope in something of this world only to realize that you needed to refocus (or start to focus) on the Lord?

3. How does the reading today impact the way you view your current circumstances?

4. Have you or someone you know been touched with infertility or miscarriage? Watermark's Shiloh team would love to encourage you if so!